Maybe don't do rush things to a break up... A talk would be a good thing to do first than breaking up... It's a good thing you already know this side of him than later. Say it directly to him that you don't feel comfortable with that kind of topic, then decide. If he refuse, break up... He needs to be understanding for you to be in a good and healthy relationship. Even I would feel not okay with that, but being in a relationship requires communication so please talk things over first, that's all
I would be cautious. The fact it’s only been 2 weeks and he asked you that is a big red flag for me. NEVER send anyone nudes no matter what. Even if they seem trustworthy, you never know if they leak it to their friends and their friends leak it to others. Honestly, it doesn’t seem like he’s in the relationship with the right mindset. You need to let him know this is not okay, it seems like he views you for his sexual outlet, and shut up be a man and find porn somewhere else. And honestly, if you can’t get over this incident (i prob won’t be able to) I would break up with him bc there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Also, I would like to reiterate, just because people can be good friends/people you know doesn’t mean they are good relationship material. Dating and being nice to people are not the same thing. Good luck! You need to set some clear boundaries that this cannot happen again or else you’re done and if he can’t respect that, dump him. You are not and will not be a sexual outlet for a guy.
Then he needs to fix that... I also don't like pushy guys. I am my own person and you as my boyfriend should respect my decision of not wanting to take pictures..
P. S. Taking pictures of myself is like to look at my face just for the sake of wanting to have pictures inside my gallery
You are only starting now and if you don't find a solution to your problem, it might cause a problem if you keep it going
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Im not the one who can decide if you break up or not, but last question is did you already tell to him that you are uncomfortable about his demand?
1.) If you already said that you dont like it, but he is still pushy, then I guess I will think thoroughly in breaking up (If I was in your position)
2.) If you dont said you are uncomfortable, then try to communicate (If I was in your position)
I dont fully know your situation and Im not you, so please keep in mind that you need to "thoroughly" think about breaking up.
But if Im in your position and he is still pushy after I communicated, I will try to tell him that we need to break-up, relationship is not just about being horny, it is so stupid to ask for someone's nude pic, when you are only two weeks and you didnt fully know things about him.
Tell him that he is stupid, if he is horny, he dont need a relationship, but instead a fuck buddy, relationship is establish for developing one another, relationship are not establish just to seek sexual pleasure.
(Well this is if im on your position)
So i have boyfriend we been dating 2 weeks and the other day he asked me that "Can u send nudes of yours" and i was shock and feel disgusting at the same time. He reply to me quickly and said im sorry if that feel uncomfy to u, im just horny today so i was about to reply him that go watch porn and masturbate but i didnt reply that....
And now i was planning break up with him because of the disgusting request but i feel hesitate to break up with him becuz he's a good guy...
So pls guys give me advice