Same gurl same, I'm so tired of mens. When I said tired, I truly mean it. Like literally mentally and physically tired.
Same girl you are not alone with that
I can second that, reading these stories (even if they’re completely made up and a fantasy) they give me so much anxiety about my relationships in the future. I feel like all the good guys are on some island where I can’t get to ಥ_ಥ
Same feel or I feel like I'm cursed
Then your not the one for them oll pent up Cristian boy find someone who has you just as last thing of their mind then i guess you got yow self a nonsexual relationship
No honestly same. I'm just so tired all my exes just wanted sex and all of them had strict and lovely parents. They looked so nice and lovely but the moment I got to know them more all they want is when I'm ready for having sex. Why is such a necessity for that? Sex is for having kids are we gonna have kids at the age of 19? Tf no! So don't ask me until it just naturally happens and because I'm like this all my previous relationships failed due to not "exploring " as they say. And I'm just done rather stay alone than having someone like that honestly. My own parents think I'm gay because I don't have a boyfriend and I just so done with relationships I'ma stay far away until I actually meet someone out there like me
No seriously. Everytime I see someone attractive all I can think about how that prince charming gone cheat on you LMAOOOO. Manhwa and Mangas really meddled in my real life relationships and it's not even funny lmao
Thanks I tried going for whatever religion, colour and cultures yet all of them has thing on their mind on when I'm ready for sex. I'm just 19 give me break until I'm ready to go to that step and because of this one thing my relationships just fails. Like why do people think sex is the foundation of a relationship and love..? It just revolts me even more
Look for some one who had too much sex his tired of it lol a bad idea and a bad advice dont look for advice in the internet cause most of them don't know what they are talking about like me
LMAO OKAY I'M TRYING TO AVOID STDs but it's okay I understand just wanted to know peoples opinions about it lol
INSISNS I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE
Hnggggg same.
So sex is when done properly and considering both parties a wonderful experience that can deepen a relationship, but many men just do it for their own satisfaction and move on.
I know I am old 32 but I can tell you this find a non religious man who has been taught to respect his partner and talk openly about how you feel, this will naturally lead to a better relationship.
People who are religious tend to be taught sex is for making babies and only for the mans satisfaction which is just sad, not having a sex drive and not wanting sex because of poor sexual education are different.
I as a woman have slept with enough men to know religious ones are the worst in pleasing their partners it is so unsatisfying.
You can find someone that can be in a good relationship without sex just have to look in unexpected places for them.
Yeah I agree and then you always hear about how someone cheating on their SO because they weren’t having enough sex, or if someone does give into having sex that they’re going to lose that person. Like damn is fucking really the most essential part about love
*doesn’t give in
Ahh thank you I feel try for this route. I feel the same way for religious partners they tend to think everything revolves around them especially when it comes to "bed" duties but that's another topic. I simply just doesn't want sex I don't feel excited well not right now and most of the partners I had up to now just doesn't understand it. Either way thanks for the advice
Oh my god I literally feel the same way! My sister keeps saying how I’m weird because I dont want a boyfriend and that I’m like never sexual. But it’s just like I don’t care for sex like at all. I don’t crave it and I’m also kinda of scared to try it. I always think everyone is having sex and that all people ever want but now I know there’s someone like you who feels the same way as me. I’m so happy! Sometimes I feel as if sex isn’t even love anymore. People just do it just because they are horny or to just get it done. I’m scared to do it with someone because I’m afraid they won’t love me even after I expose myself to them like that. Idek I hate this world sm and don’t know who to trust.
That's called people with brain with logic and avoiding dangerous situation which they will end up regreting it later. So it's better to do it when married and ready. I also think sex dont prove that they truly love u, if they love u truly they would rather spend time with u and wait for it when they get married.
No I after I posted this comment I found in not the only one either. It's not weird at all! And what Mika said is 100% true. Life isn't all about Sex, drugs and partying around. People make it as of it's a part of life. Just live the way you think will make you happy. What others consider happy doesn't mean it applies to you. It just makes you different and being different is fucking amazing. Do sex whenever you feel comfortable even if it's late in marriage let nobody force you when you're not ready. If your partner keeps mentioning sex knowing you're not ready than he/she is not for you. Also don't worry about time you can even meet your soulmate when you're 40 years old. Don't rush anything!
Yep, ur totally right. Its better to wait than regret it later.
I literally don't have any sexual desire. And it's quite difficult finding a man that doesn't think with his dick or horny all the time. And I just can't trust such men at all neither am I gonna bother trying. I don't know even though Sex is healthy for a relationship I would like to have one where sex is the last thing both of us want. Maybe this is why I'm still single. Maybe it's for the best and men these days I just can't simply trust and reading Shoujos makes this Trauma even worse