riftan

You should put on riftan shoes as well. He basically go through war to get her. He loves her very much but he isn’t the type of person who is expressive about his feelings. Come on give him a break

It isn't an excuse to yell at her though. Might as well shut up and collect his thoughts if he can't express his self well. He knows how she easily get scared and discourage cos it is so obvious.

He is human lol Everyone at some point get mad. If you feel sorry for her then you should equally feel the same for him. Look both sides will ya, he was also sent into the war unwillingly putting his life at risk. Dealt with a lot of death as such a young age. I know she have also gone through hell but basically he did too. He can’t show any emotions because he was forced to deal with it all when he was just a teenager. Who could blame him? ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

Exactly. Raftan is allowed to FEEL however he wishes. His FEELINGS are valid. BUT he's not allowed to react however he wished based on his feelings.

People mistake "your feelings are valid" with "your reaction based on your feelings are valid". These aren't the same things at all.

Emotions don't have brains and people can feel however they wish. But as adults, your emotions shouldn't dictate your actions. When Maxi is trembling in front of him, crying and shaking, it's his cue to be aware that something is wrong with her, and respond accordingly. He doesn't get a pass to misbehave with her and humiliate her in front of other because he was "worried". Nor should he be given a pass. He's a married man now. He needs to start learning to treat his wife differently from his subordinates. She's not a soldier under his command, that he gets to scream at her. She's the Lady of this Manor and as such should be given her due respect.

Read the comment above. :)