Anyone ever feel as if you can't express yourself truthfully to you friends or family cuz ...

NightTime_19 May 13, 2021 6:56 pm

Anyone ever feel as if you can't express yourself truthfully to you friends or family cuz you'll be judged or they don't understand your point and blame you and you can't be yourself?

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    Sleepy May 13, 2021 7:14 pm

    especially when they call you dramatic and an attention seeker whenever you try and convey any kind of negative emotion

    NightTime_19 May 13, 2021 7:25 pm
    especially when they call you dramatic and an attention seeker whenever you try and convey any kind of negative emotion Sleepy

    Yesss,it's annoying and when I even try to explain they get mad

    Sleepy May 13, 2021 7:36 pm

    I really relate to that and it especially sucks because I have trouble conveying my thoughts and emotions in the first place :/

    Otokke May 13, 2021 7:40 pm

    I get scold if I slightly appear sad or depressed... I don’t know why they are like that and I am suffocating. I actually think I have depression... but I have no one to talk about it too, at least no one that would understand

    NightTime_19 May 13, 2021 7:40 pm
    I really relate to that and it especially sucks because I have trouble conveying my thoughts and emotions in the first place :/ Sleepy

    Same,they never try to understand my point of view and how it affects me

    Sleepy May 13, 2021 7:44 pm
    I get scold if I slightly appear sad or depressed... I don’t know why they are like that and I am suffocating. I actually think I have depression... but I have no one to talk about it too, at least no one tha... Otokke

    I get the whole "there's no reason for you to feel this way, you have everything that you want, a roof over your head etc" or the "people have it worse so stop complaining" or "you always feel this way" sometimes I really wonder if I really feel this way or just want attention

    Sleepy May 13, 2021 7:47 pm
    Same,they never try to understand my point of view and how it affects me NightTime_19

    exactly, but sometimes I can't help but think "what if they are right and I am only doing this for attention?" etc it's honestly suffocating

    Otokke May 13, 2021 7:50 pm
    I get the whole "there's no reason for you to feel this way, you have everything that you want, a roof over your head etc" or the "people have it worse so stop complaining" or "you always feel this way" sometim... Sleepy

    Well I cry when I am alone, i don’t want attention, but sometimes you just cannot hide your feelings... so I do my best not to show them that... I already know they do not care about how I truly feel, I just want to be left alone

    Sleepy May 13, 2021 7:57 pm
    Well I cry when I am alone, i don’t want attention, but sometimes you just cannot hide your feelings... so I do my best not to show them that... I already know they do not care about how I truly feel, I just ... Otokke

    yeah but sometimes I can't help but want them to understand, lately my grades have been getting low (I'm usually a straight-A student and I've been getting Fs) and my mom keeps on getting mad at me, my life is also a mess nowadays because of my degrading mental health, sure I can hide my emotions but not the effects...

    Otokke May 13, 2021 7:59 pm
    yeah but sometimes I can't help but want them to understand, lately my grades have been getting low (I'm usually a straight-A student and I've been getting Fs) and my mom keeps on getting mad at me, my life is ... Sleepy

    It is totally normal that you want them to understand, I do too, and that is why it hurts, and makes it worst, cause family should be there so support us, but it is not the case... if I had an understanding family, I am sure I won’t be that depressed

    NightTime_19 May 13, 2021 9:02 pm
    It is totally normal that you want them to understand, I do too, and that is why it hurts, and makes it worst, cause family should be there so support us, but it is not the case... if I had an understanding fam... Otokke

    Really,I feel like I could be more confident and do the things I want to.

    Sleepy May 13, 2021 11:44 pm
    Really,I feel like I could be more confident and do the things I want to. NightTime_19

    yeah, if everyone had an understanding supportive family then a lot of the world's problems would be solved

    Sakura leen aoi May 13, 2021 11:45 pm
    I get the whole "there's no reason for you to feel this way, you have everything that you want, a roof over your head etc" or the "people have it worse so stop complaining" or "you always feel this way" sometim... Sleepy

    Woah just my thoughts..

    Sakura leen aoi May 13, 2021 11:49 pm
    Same,they never try to understand my point of view and how it affects me NightTime_19

    It is surely true but no one can truly understand someone even if they try n maybe u already see that...u don't even know who I truly am ..cause in front of my friends n family I am like the most cheerful n friendly person but alone I am lifeless with kinda dead feelings

    Sleepy May 13, 2021 11:55 pm
    It is surely true but no one can truly understand someone even if they try n maybe u already see that...u don't even know who I truly am ..cause in front of my friends n family I am like the most cheerful n fri... Sakura leen aoi

    and then they go like "I would know if something's wrong" like no you wouldn't lmfao

    Sakura leen aoi May 14, 2021 12:12 am
    and then they go like "I would know if something's wrong" like no you wouldn't lmfao Sleepy

    But u can always find ppl to express urself at some point of ur life if ur lucky ....I have a friend who shares everything with me n me too...she is my only true friend more like shit soulmate.....anyway I totally get wut ur saying when ppl don't understand understand ...u should just stop expecting anything from them...that way atleast it won't hurt

    Sleepy May 14, 2021 12:42 am
    But u can always find ppl to express urself at some point of ur life if ur lucky ....I have a friend who shares everything with me n me too...she is my only true friend more like shit soulmate.....anyway I tota... Sakura leen aoi

    I was talking about family, I'm lucky enough to have 4 friends that I can vent to whenever, I'm emotionally attached to them to the point where I'm pretty sure it's unhealthy #-.-)

    Otokke May 14, 2021 6:50 am
    It is surely true but no one can truly understand someone even if they try n maybe u already see that...u don't even know who I truly am ..cause in front of my friends n family I am like the most cheerful n fri... Sakura leen aoi

    I can relate 100%

    Otokke May 14, 2021 6:57 am

    Let’s not loose hope, at least if we have children in the future or if we meet youngsters who are facing what we are facing, maybe we could save lives by giving them the right advices. Fighting everyone

    NightTime_19 May 14, 2021 12:18 pm
    Let’s not loose hope, at least if we have children in the future or if we meet youngsters who are facing what we are facing, maybe we could save lives by giving them the right advices. Fighting everyone Otokke

    That was my plan if I ever have kids,but I still don't want nun.