I'm going to focus on the "he should've done something bit" because anyone blaming her is special.
There's a hard counter to you using the threat as an argument in simply pointing out the current timeline where he is ignoring the threat.
Well I'm sure he didn't know that he could ignore it, because just like in life we make decisions without knowing that there were better options
Yeah, there are many cases of neglect and abuse that come naturally to these people and they don't realize that they're hurting their partner, but that doesn't excuse what already happened.
You can apply your reply to many situations.
When the threat is "i will do something bad if you don't hurt your wife", maybe you should consider taking action instead of just standing by?
Yeah....
The dad out here killing people so that he (the ml) agrees to his terms but y'all just ignoring that saying he should have done something or that she should have divorced the ml, where she gonna go ? How would she live ? She has no friends no status no nothing. It's sometimes best to stay with the evil you know that the one that you don't.