yeah, it is selfish of him but I could understand him a little..... It is hard to say these super delicate topics to your partner I guess... cause he knows from the start, they can't.... He also thinks of his partner's future..... You know, having a child is one of the bliss of a loving couple and having the fact that you cannot gave birth to a child is painful, so painful.... sorry, I started crying because my close aunt even she is a woman, she cannot gave birth and I know, she wanted a child from her womb but cannot do it because of her condition.. but i am happy that uncle did not left her.... there are couples who end up breaking because of a spouse incapability of giving birth.... sorry, just emotional
if you're afraid and doubting your relationship, you should discuss with your partner, you can't just decide what would be better for the person you love! wtf