you use the word “abusive” too much.
1 This relationship isnt abusive Its toxic.
2 The uke thinks hes always right
3 The ukes narcissistic
I mean Hes being rlly problematic. Hes mad that he isnt the smartest. And also Hes being a bitch ab the whole money situation even tho Someone is offering it. I understand why he doesnt want to accept it But like Hes j being Problematic. and also NOW that he knows the seme is smart. He can ask the seme for Tutoring And pass the rest of the year. So both are happy
I don’t wanna be rude but if u were in the ukes position wouldn’t u do the same or let somebody push U around control you and throw money around in your face if the seme was less passive then I would understand what you are saying but if I was in that position from day one when he threw the food on the floor I would’ve left cause behavior like that would be to unbearable for me and the amount of times the seme apologized and did the same thing again of course the uke would be mad like literally the seme is giving the uke handouts that he doesn’t want not only is that embarrassing for the uke it’s hurting his pride btw I’m just looking from the ukes POV and what I would have done in a situation like that
I mean i would be anooyed that he was controlling me but i wouldn’t be upset ab him being smarter. And also i wouls just humiliate him just like he did to me
its not about him (seme) being smarter, its about the fact that he distracted uke when he should have been studying. If it wasn't for that, sure he might have not been first or second place, but at least he would of done much better then 12th place.
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Toxic relationships ARE abusive... which is why they are toxic in the first place. Abuse does not necessarily mean physical, there are all sorts of abuses such as verbal, sexual(at first seme literally forced himself on him, he also kept pushing uke to do sexual shit), even the tray flipping shit was a form of abuse.
He is not mad that he isn't the smartest, he is mad because he was LIED to. He felt that seme took advantage of him. If he studied normally (w/o the seme bothering him) and he still placed 12th place, he would have been finer with it. If I were in his place, I would have done the same ass shit.
He also knew that the seme knew how important grades and studying were for him. This is why when he found out that the seme was literally just 'fucking around' to him it shows how the seme does not care about his problems at all. Seme doesn't give two shits about what Uke wants, he only cares about what HE wants.
Also, I think you don't know what the definition of narcissism means. Uke has an extreme inferiority complex. (he keeps repeating how everyone else is richer, he got so embarrassed when seme met his father, etc)
Even that aside, narcissists prioritize themselves. Uke did not do that when it came to the seme, instead, he put his problems aside(studying) just to help him out.
You just mad that there is finally someone who is standing up against toxic relationships instead of being submissive. If I were him you best believe I would have acted up. I would of left seme's bitch ass the second he threw that fucking tray. Your daddy issues are not my problem, it doesn't excuse your shitty behavior. You gotta fix that shit before you're ready for a relationship.
Exactly
ur reply is so on point
I'm always right
I think the people who are anti uke are just into that behavior in general. Or have a fucked up understanding of concent and all that shit from the amount of toxic semes there are in bl. Compared to other stories like painter of the night, this shit is vanilla which is why they think semes actions are not bad.
Yes toxic relationship Are Verbally abusive But they aren’t physically Abusive. The person i replied to Said it was abusive. And So you know every single narcissist have inferiority Complex’s. And the uke Does have narcissistic Traits. He may not be a narcissist But he does have traits of them. I do know what the word Narcissist means. And lastly The uke couldve just left When the seme Threw the Tray. I would’ve left And called him a stuck up bitch. But the uke just stayed there. And yes I know the seme took away time from the uke But now that the uke Knows that the Seme is very smart Cant he just ask For him to tutor him. Its also Just the beginning of the school year.
And The seme Uses money as his way Of surviving.
Hes abused by his parents and has never been loved His only was Of getting affection is By money. He doesn’t Know any better. Its the his way Of Surviving. AND i also think the uke is being in a way ignorant Only caring about himself And not even questioning The seme. At the end of the day. This petty Middle school Bs. The uke is being hard headed and the Seme is Trying to Find affection. And by doing that hes making the Uke mad. I think that none of them are In the right. The uke is getting mad over something that can be resolved Super quickly and The seme Is being dumb.
Narcissism
It...was...a...joke i-
The semester is literally guilt tripping the uke. After the tray shot and the other sbit the same used his daddy issues an excuses and the uke fell for it (which is why he said something along the lines of " I wish I knew about it before" I think the seme is being manipulative. Also just cuz you don't mind ic someone were to pay for you doesn't mean everyone else would. Not everyone can accept a large sum of money including me. I'd rather experience hardship then let anyone do that and the uke prolly feels the same. This is also a form of financial abuse, where if the seme were to give him the money, the uke would have this feeling of "owing" to him making him more submissive and shit because he "paid for it". Look up financial abuse its a literal thing.
Also, once again, it's not about the tutoring but rather the fact that the seme lied to him and distracted him. The uke mentioned that he wasn't able to study because of the seme. That was prolly the reason he didn't do as well. It's not the fact that the seme is smart or he needs tutoring, it's the fact that the seme is only thinking about himself and dismissing the problems of the uke.
Also if your daddy issues are so bad to the point where you hurt those around you, you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. You need to first deal with that before anything g else.
IKR, if they want a pushover uke who would forgive the seme no matter how toxic they are, this is not for them. They should just stick with black lotus, yours to claim or banana scandal season 2. No hate to these manhwa because I did enjoy reading them but man the ukes were all too submissive to their toxic semes. It infuriates me sometimes when bad people get away with their behaviour just because they are hot/rich.
I 100% agree with u
Gurl- I know
Once again ill say it. The seme is only doing this bc its his only way of Surviving. He uses this method so that he doesnt Need to ever go through what he did. Yes that does justify His actions But gurl ur not even Listening. And ALSO if i was in the ukes place i wouldnt get the Money bc I find that pitty. And anooying. AND ALSO the school system is Sooo different in korea. They Have Multiple Semesters. And also You barely reading my comments bc ur Skimming through things That are important. And lastly Why are you acting as if Lying is a crime. Like I know The seme Did this with The intention of wanting to spend time with the uke which made Him Study poorly. But like your acting as if he lied about Something huge. Im not excusing the semes behavior Bc He shouldnt have lied but your acting as if its such a big problem when its not.
Gurl what are u talking about
I hate joonin from yours to claim Hes so fucking stupid and is So indecisive And anooying. And i dont want a pushover Uke bc Pushover ukes are fucking stupid. Im saying the uke is being sensitive Over something that can be resolved
wait people dislike the uke?
dude he is literally one of the very few that have stood up to toxic semes. Like literally I seriously like him cuz of that. Black hair dude is literally being abusive(yelling and shit), inconsiderate(trynna solve everything with money despite knowing that the uke does not want it/ feels uncomfortable), and selfish(Knows how important the grades are to uke but still hung out with him/distracted him, he could of easily done that shit AFTER the exams but used studying, which is a very important thing for uke as an excuse)