I had the exact same thing happen (except I was wasted). My ex bf who Id broken up with awhile before, but had stayed friends with, titty fcked me while I was so drunk I couldn’t move. I told my bf about it (I was desperately in love with him) and he blamed me. Even going so far as to tell the friend who molested me that he was mad at me not him. It was my birthday on top of everything. But I gave him absolute hell. He was sitting there calling me a slut and blaming me and I just lost my sht. Chucked my Diet Coke at him as hard as I could then punched the fck outta him. Took several ppl to pull me off of him. I just kept wailing on him. I’m not a violent person but something in me just snapped. It wasn’t the first time I’d been assaulted and I guess all the rage of those violations bubbled up. Later I punched the friend who’d molested me.
i have no right to say something about ur relationshi with ur ex but if he loved you even just little bit he would've listened you and learned the truth. Dude honestly you are such a strong person i could never do that.
I'm sorry, I'm speechless. This isn't right. It's fucking not. I wish I could give you a hug irl 'cuz this shit must've hurt like a goddamn sonovabij and they should be held responsible for their actions (˘ ⌢ ˘) I hope you're in a much better space with a good support system
I had the exact same thing happen (except I was wasted). My ex bf who Id broken up with awhile before, but had stayed friends with, titty fcked me while I was so drunk I couldn’t move. I told my bf about it (I was desperately in love with him) and he blamed me. Even going so far as to tell the friend who molested me that he was mad at me not him. It was my birthday on top of everything. But I gave him absolute hell. He was sitting there calling me a slut and blaming me and I just lost my sht. Chucked my Diet Coke at him as hard as I could then punched the fck outta him. Took several ppl to pull me off of him. I just kept wailing on him. I’m not a violent person but something in me just snapped. It wasn’t the first time I’d been assaulted and I guess all the rage of those violations bubbled up. Later I punched the friend who’d molested me.