Cant read the room trope

Tetsumine May 9, 2021 3:01 am

Love beware the villainess but the cant read the room trope is so overdone....even if MC doesnt realize nine is in love with her, she doesnt even understand that he cares at all?? Its annoying and nine has to get hurt because of it. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

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    Cuzhefuckingpushedme May 9, 2021 3:10 am

    But she's also taking care of herself well, and was doing so before nine, so why is he making a bit deal out of it now. Just cuz you like someone it doesn't give you the right to restrict them because you don't like what they're doing and pout. He should've tried to compromise the situation but giving a good alternative instead of saying "Don't do this" with no plan to use instead of that one and then sticking his tail between his legs. I came here for Melissa to be a badass, not for a man to impede on her life and try to fucking take control of the narrative instead of respecting her choices. Sorry for the rant.

    Eunshi May 9, 2021 3:32 am
    But she's also taking care of herself well, and was doing so before nine, so why is he making a bit deal out of it now. Just cuz you like someone it doesn't give you the right to restrict them because you don't... Cuzhefuckingpushedme

    I agree and as for the “cant read the room” even if she wasn’t Melissa at first, she came to the world with a CHEATING fiancée and the fact not many men tried to go for her bc she was a fiancée and seen as a evil person. Nine also didn’t immediately try to flirt with Melissa so as they got closer she just saw it as him opening up more because nine was portrayed as this really cautious and scared wolf bc of how he was abandoned. I’d rather this be in here than the sudden story change and they make Melissa this easily flustered girl around a person that she found out likes her

    Cuzhefuckingpushedme May 9, 2021 3:52 am
    I agree and as for the “cant read the room” even if she wasn’t Melissa at first, she came to the world with a CHEATING fiancée and the fact not many men tried to go for her bc she was a fiancée and seen... Eunshi

    I dead want Melissa when she finds out to be like "You like me? Fucking cringe. Why didn't you just say it instead of pouting"

    Tetsumine May 9, 2021 10:04 am
    But she's also taking care of herself well, and was doing so before nine, so why is he making a bit deal out of it now. Just cuz you like someone it doesn't give you the right to restrict them because you don't... Cuzhefuckingpushedme

    "for a man to impede on her life and try to fucking take control of the narrative instead of respecting her choices." Are you serious, or are you a child in your rebelling stage? If someone doesnt show concern when ANYONE, especially an important person, wants to poison themselves then they reallly do not actually care about other persons. Being concerned about MC risking her life is normal, theres nothing wrong with nine. It's MC with a screw loose for wanting to poison herself and then getting mad when people dont want her to end up hurting/dying. Her actions in the latest chapter are childish and selfish, and while having these qualities are fine and I still like MC and dont think her character is bad, I just expected more character development by this point.

    Tetsumine May 9, 2021 10:08 am
    I agree and as for the “cant read the room” even if she wasn’t Melissa at first, she came to the world with a CHEATING fiancée and the fact not many men tried to go for her bc she was a fiancée and seen... Eunshi

    I actually dont mind when the characters dont realize someone is in love with them, and agree with you not having a sudden change (slow-burn works for me lol). I only dislike it when they dont realize that they care at all- even a friend, or as someone you have spent time with will show concern. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Cuzhefuckingpushedme May 9, 2021 11:57 am
    "for a man to impede on her life and try to fucking take control of the narrative instead of respecting her choices." Are you serious, or are you a child in your rebelling stage? If someone doesnt show concern ... Tetsumine

    First of all I'm a grown ass woman so don't call me a fucking child. And secondly I never said that him being concerned was bad. I literally said he should talked about it instead of pouting and tried to compromise instead of not giving any other possible solution, getting mad, and ignoring her and pouting because she didn't want to fucking hear it. If anything Nine is the one being childish right now. The only thing he said to Melissa when he did his little spiel was shit like "I don't want you to get hurt" and "You're not invincible" instead of "Hey, I'm worried you could get hurt doing this, can we don't up with some way where you don't have to directly drink the poison? I know you trust Yuri but-" etc. etc. Choosing to get angry and then starting a screaming match instead is not how you fucking handle that kind of situation. You must be a fucking kid if you couldn't understand that much from shit I already brought up.

    Tetsumine May 9, 2021 12:27 pm
    First of all I'm a grown ass woman so don't call me a fucking child. And secondly I never said that him being concerned was bad. I literally said he should talked about it instead of pouting and tried to compr... Cuzhefuckingpushedme

    The only person "screaming" and using profanities is you :) No use talking to a "grown ass women" with the mentality of a child.

    Eunshi May 9, 2021 2:29 pm
    The only person "screaming" and using profanities is you :) No use talking to a "grown ass women" with the mentality of a child. Tetsumine

    Well it was kind of you being rude first, even if it wasn’t directed at her your wording made it seem like you were calling her a child. She just said her opinion calmly and tbh she replied to it very well but if I thought someone called me a child who’s in a “rebelling” stage I’d get pretty annoyed

    Tetsumine May 9, 2021 6:48 pm
    Well it was kind of you being rude first, even if it wasn’t directed at her your wording made it seem like you were calling her a child. She just said her opinion calmly and tbh she replied to it very well bu... Eunshi

    If anything, I was the calm one in this exchange (and the one who did not use profanities to cuss out the other) :)

    Eunshi May 9, 2021 7:17 pm
    If anything, I was the calm one in this exchange (and the one who did not use profanities to cuss out the other) :) Tetsumine

    I don’t think you’re understanding what I’m saying here :] you were rude first. Be in intentional or miscommunication but seeing how you are, you probably won’t accept it as instead of trying to explain if the “are you a kid?” Was directed at her you keep trying to make yourself look good.

    Tetsumine May 9, 2021 7:39 pm

    Who am i trying to make myself look good for? It is basically only you and me as this chat is probably pages into the comments. Im just stating the facts, you are the one not understanding what I am saying. You continue to claim I am the rude one while disregarding her much ruder comments and curses towards me. Then you are rude and condescending toward me. Was I rude toward you? I was not. Thank you for enlightening me with your one sided perspective.

    I do in fact think that putting yourself in harms way without taking into consideration the feelings of those that care about you, be it a family member, a friend, an employee, is selfish, and that if a person cannot see that then they have a child like mentality, which is what i stated previously and I will not change my mind on this. If it was your own mother, sister, whoever you care about about to take poison would you just say "ok cool take the poison im all on board"? I stated this opinion and also acknowledged that the MC is not a bad character despite my comments, yet poster she cursed me out. But as you seem narrowminded, I dont expect you to understand so continue your baseless defamation but i will not longer engage in conversation that is a waste of time.