Ok this is turning to something like bj alex where sex is the solution to everything

we need to teach yaoi authorS how to give their characters COMMUNICATION because i'M NOT MAD AT THOSE SMUTTY SCENES but brooo comunicate a bit

Real talk. Im not against smut scenes, in fact I love them, but it has the have a story. I dont care if it takes 10 chapters before a good smut scene or what. Idc if a sex scene lasts for 5 chapters or more thereafter. Please do not equate yaoi to simply sex. There has to be an intimacy. One good example maybe is the new employee. Give us foreplay. Give us the plot im begging you. More importantly, a conflict should promote communication, not sex alone argh so frustrating. I dropped a lot of potentially good manhwa bec of this trope.

EXACTLY, We need more reality and the reality is not always sex. I'm not against it but like you said it's just bad that they find a solution in sex other than words.