I'm disastified

I feel slightly disatisfied with the female lead as a character. I understand she doesn't know much as a commoner knight captian with brutal strength in the middle of no where but i feel like her nievity is too strong when it comes to romantic topics. I wish the male lead had explained what going to the balcony had meant rather than seducing her because i feel what he did was taking advantage of her lack of understanding and thus she had no knowledge on how to respond to the princes advances. Had the Male Lead took into consideration that the Female Lead was new to high society and the customs of the party he would have had the decency to wait until she had more knowledge until approaching her. As it stands I feel slight contempt for this story.