Feng feng shily approched Yi yun to ask permission for a hug and my heart simply exploded ...

Oogami Koga May 6, 2021 5:00 pm

Feng feng shily approched Yi yun to ask permission for a hug and my heart simply exploded on the spot ...
Hugs in shounen ai always gets me going (▰˘◡˘▰)

Responses
    TwistedCupid May 6, 2021 5:08 pm

    It is so refreshing to see characters asking for consent instead of just being pushy about it. This really is a healthy relationship and I love the healthy way they approach each other. Consent is important. Asking permission is romantic. Less toxic BL & More consent and healthy BL, please! We need more of this.

    Oogami Koga May 6, 2021 5:31 pm
    It is so refreshing to see characters asking for consent instead of just being pushy about it. This really is a healthy relationship and I love the healthy way they approach each other. Consent is important. As... TwistedCupid

    I totally agree, articulated consent & decisions coming from both side is the best kind of romance and how every love stories is supposed to go! (Except ofc if the story is focused on unhealthy/toxic behaviours)
    I find it sad but this made me realize once again that too many romance BLs lack of clarity when it comes to consent. I can remember a lot of moments from other BLs where one of them straight up kiss with no warning and the other « melts » into it which seems to come off as him agreeing to the kiss, which is not clear consent!

    cuddleymuffin May 7, 2021 1:24 am

    i meant to like :'(( ┗( T﹏T )┛

    TwistedCupid May 8, 2021 6:22 pm
    i meant to like :'(( ┗( T﹏T )┛ cuddleymuffin

    Aaaaah... the two thumbs are too close together, aren't they? I had that happen too.

    cuddleymuffin May 13, 2021 11:15 pm
    Aaaaah... the two thumbs are too close together, aren't they? I had that happen too. TwistedCupid

    Yess ); and we can't even change the vote ╥﹏╥