I hope this doesn’t come off as rude, I’m just copying my input from another thread
If you assault someone, they will not care about your “sad” backstory, because YOU, not someone else, assaulted THEM. It won’t matter that you “feel bad” about it, you still assaulted them, that fact is cemented.
If ayeon assaulted a woman, I genuinely don’t believe the reaction would be the same, it’d at least be A LOT more controversial. Soyeon is batshit crazy, but ayeon shouldn’t immediately be absolved of his crimes bc he “loved” her. He still committed them. A rapist might’ve been assaulted in the past, but that doesn’t make them any less a rapist. Someone might’ve been peer pressured into assaulting someone by their friends, which is scarily not uncommon irl, but they're still the perpetrator bc they went through with the action.
If someone is crying and screaming for help under you, but you continue to go through with it, you ARE guilty. I feel very strongly about this bc THIS IS STILL AN EXTREMELY RELEVANT AND PREVALENT PROBLEM IRL. I’m not saying ayeon deserves to go to prison or anything for the rest of his life, but there should have been consequences. Soyeon got her’s.
There unfortunately weren’t any for ayeon other than his own, minimal “feels bad” moment.
oh ur that person from the other thread i replied to, saying ur still pissed aeyon didn't get what he deserved smthn smthn. imo jaerim not forgiving aeyon is enough punishment. i do agree what he did was unforgivable, but i always try to understand why the person did what they did instead of dwell over what they've done. bc actions always have reasons behind them.. a thief could've robbed a store in hopes to get money for medical bills. a kid could be violent towards others bc he gets abused at home. it's not always the case, sometimes ppl are just assholes, but most likely everyone has a story.
soyeon was just a bitch since childhood and aeyon couldn't stand up for himself, he was strong but could easily be manipulated. he felt like he had to get her approval no matter what. so i understand why aeyon bc i've also been through a toxic relationship. it feels suffocating.. so when he broke up w her, i felt so happy i couldn't help but smile (▰˘◡˘▰)
sure, assaulting someone is a punishable crime, and im not usually the kind to let criminals go after hearing their sob story. but aeyon's case just hit too close to home and i can't help but feel protective of him now lol, ig he's a character that has a special place somewhere in my heart
i hope i didn't come off as rude, this is just my perspective. and im glad u decided to comment ur own opinion on my thread <33 surely enough, if i was someone who didn't have a soft spot for broken villains like aeyon, maybe i would've had a different approach on this matter lmaoo
For me, because ayeon hits too close to life, I’m not able to give him such an easy pass.
I don’t think a person you assaulted not forgiving you is a punishment, it’s an understandably just reaction. Ayeon ended up being socially isolated for a while after, but even that just passed so quickly. The reason behind action is such a subjective gray area that it'll really vary per person per case. I don’t blame ayeon for getting stuck with soyeon bc he obviously had his own issues with isolation and codependency, I was just particularly annoyed by how fast it skimmed over everything he did to people even beyond jaerim to get to a happy ending.
Looking back, I was also more frustrated with the comments immediately discounting ayeon’s actions bc of soyeon. She might’ve been the reason, but that doesn’t excuse him, which he at least realized. He is improving, I just wish there was more to it.
I do understand your position tho, it’s interesting to see other insights (⌒▽⌒) glad to hear you got out of those relationships!
GUYS HAVE WE SRSLY FORGOTTEN HOW BLINDLY IN LOVE AEYON WAS WITH SOYEON???
stop blaming him pls ╥﹏╥ sure he sexually assaulted jaerim (i don't think he raped him tho) and that might've been rlly traumatizing for him, but if he wasn't simping for the wrong person, he wouldn't have done that. have yall forgotten the panel where he wiped jaerim's tears saying "im sorry". that was proof he also couldn't escape the situation, but he never wanted to do it. he just did it out of love despite how toxic it was.
that's why i blame that bitch soyeon for all of this and am happy she got the beating she deserved (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
im glad aeyon got a character development and is happy now. him and woori deserve each other