coming to terms with sexuality, your personal identify, and simply how you feel is difficult and confusing, I get it esp since I am gay and non binary so ive struggled a lot with my identity. But idk i feel like he was still sort of a mess about his feelings and he had such a direct and sure answer. Its as if he doesnt even want to give time to even question it further, probably due to denial and shock. Which I get, South Korea isnt the most accepting and theres a lot of stigma, esp in a heternormative society and simply aknowledging how you feel is smth on its own. Tbh I dont think he did anything wrong bc he assumes he doesnt feel that way. His response was valid because you cant change how you feel abt someone no matter how hard you try, but he obviously does feel smth for him so I hope in the future he can come to terms with who he is and obv, they can get together and be happy.
coming to terms with sexuality, your personal identify, and simply how you feel is difficult and confusing, I get it esp since I am gay and non binary so ive struggled a lot with my identity. But idk i feel like he was still sort of a mess about his feelings and he had such a direct and sure answer. Its as if he doesnt even want to give time to even question it further, probably due to denial and shock. Which I get, South Korea isnt the most accepting and theres a lot of stigma, esp in a heternormative society and simply aknowledging how you feel is smth on its own. Tbh I dont think he did anything wrong bc he assumes he doesnt feel that way. His response was valid because you cant change how you feel abt someone no matter how hard you try, but he obviously does feel smth for him so I hope in the future he can come to terms with who he is and obv, they can get together and be happy.