I only have two friends and idk if they think of me as a friend too. They both have their ...

Jin May 3, 2021 4:30 pm

I only have two friends and idk if they think of me as a friend too. They both have their circle of friends, indeed they have a lot of friends. And they are just talking to me whenever they have a problem with their friends. I am a boring person ig.

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    Lilahh.27 May 3, 2021 4:32 pm

    Wtf drop their asses you deserve better people they are basically just using you don’t give them that satisfaction

    Corazon May 3, 2021 4:36 pm

    I don’t think it’s cause your boring I think their the ones who truly are boring, since they only talk about their problems and won’t talk about nothing else.

    Evelyn ;-; May 3, 2021 4:38 pm

    Oohhh :/ if they’re coming to you about their problems it’s because you’re a very trustful and reliable person but if they “toss” you aside right after- I’m sorry but fuck them, they honestly don’t deserve you,, people like them are so inenial, if I were you I wouldn’t want to be treated like that :(

    Tokumei May 3, 2021 4:42 pm

    bestie do not let those kind of ppl get near you they ain't any better. That's why being alone is better than having a bitch putting up a smiley face in front of me.. I absolutely do not pay a fuck those kind of ppl.. So honey the choice is yours. whether you keep them or you leave them.. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    teahaven May 3, 2021 4:45 pm

    In my personal opinion, is that really a bad thing? Without friends, you can focus on yourself. I know it sucks sometimes, I've been in your shoes. Perhaps I don't have any close friends. However, I realized don't need to be intimate friends with someone to hangout and have fun in life. I've focused on my relationship with my family and my personal hobbies.

    Deep relationships take time. Maybe talking to your friends on a deeper level or hanging out with them is what it takes. Ask them to hangout! If they are unwilling though, you can stay quick friends. Not being deep friends is not necessarily a bad thing either.

    I know this sounds daunting, but in all honesty you can make some new friends as well! You aren't obligated to hang out only with them. Join a club (mock trial, debate, theater, sporty, etc). It's easy to make fast friends. Relationships are quick to form.

    I don't think you are a boring person. In this world of 7 billion people, you are bound to find people around you who think you are amazing and funny. I know I'm a stranger, but if you need anything I can always lend a ear.

    eggslut May 3, 2021 4:46 pm

    did you try to make small talks abt something else w them?? girll,, if they are ONLY coming for their problems its not right.. friendships should be two ways.. its not wrong to share their problems with you but if they only come for that and not to talk about something else its a bit ://

    teahaven May 3, 2021 4:58 pm
    In my personal opinion, is that really a bad thing? Without friends, you can focus on yourself. I know it sucks sometimes, I've been in your shoes. Perhaps I don't have any close friends. However, I realized do... teahaven

    It may seem like I'm a bit too lenient, but I haven't met the people you are talking about before

    I've met people who've only talked to me only to bitch about other people. After deeper investigation, they had toxic behavior. If they have the behavior above I would distance myself, but I wouldn't completely ghost them.

    However, I've met people who also bitched about other people. Were they bad people? No! They simply did not know what to talk about except that.

    I think you should make your decision on a gut feeling. Take what I say with a grain of salt though, I can be too pacifistic sometimes.

    um- May 3, 2021 7:46 pm

    or maybe its because they're using you, and you deserve better.