Will probable get restricted but wanna ask your opinions on this matter

ThisIsADmup May 3, 2021 3:14 am

I argued with a person on facebook, a fujoshi shared a post that was clealry fetishizing gay people. And a bi “pick me” person commented this while I was saying in the comment on the post made that not gay people should not fetishize gay people





“Fantasies are, again, fun :) and normal. And just being unashamed about it and chatting with my friends about hot guys and hot gay sex ideas is fun, yes. I have even let two of my friends watch while I had fun with an other guy, all of us loved, its exciting. :D Writing fanfiction together is fun too. I even thought of hot lesbian sex ideas for two of my fujoshi friends who are a couple, because they asked me too, while they were raving about how cute I was with another guy.

However, on the other hand, you are going to find that everyone will absolutely hate and detest and exclude you if you start hating on the fangirls - aka our friends and fellow fans. That would, at least here, be the quickest way to not being IN the lgbt anime community anymore. XD”







They like straight up said that I need to accept fujoshis fetishizing gay people to be “accepted” into the “community”??????? They said that they will hate me them and their “fujoshi friends”??? for not accepting fujoshi or NOT GAY people fetishize gay people.

Am i over reacting or am i wrong??????

Responses
    tiny_boy_bottom May 3, 2021 3:14 am

    yeah that's fucked up

    neji May 3, 2021 3:19 am

    this is unrelated but if a mangago mod i reading this: DONT RESTRICT PEOPLE FOR SHARING HARMLESS STUFF LIKE THIS
    now back to your post, i agree that’s whack

    shober May 3, 2021 3:23 am

    Most fujoshis are LGBT+ people though, either bi/lesbian girls or closeted trans people so it's not fetishising whatsoever. Even if they're straight they should be allowed to read yaoi since plenty of people can't come out or haven't figured out themselves.

    shober May 3, 2021 3:24 am

    and it doesn't matter how they treat fictional characters, as long as they don't harass or overstep boundaries for IRL gay people then what's the problem?

    • r0ck • May 3, 2021 3:27 am
    Most fujoshis are LGBT+ people though, either bi/lesbian girls or closeted trans people so it's not fetishising whatsoever. Even if they're straight they should be allowed to read yaoi since plenty of people ca... shober

    Well actually a fujoshi is a straight girl who likes yaoi, by definition. someone who is gay and a “fujoshi” wouldn’t be called that!

    icy May 3, 2021 3:31 am

    wtf?!

    ThisIsADmup May 3, 2021 3:33 am
    and it doesn't matter how they treat fictional characters, as long as they don't harass or overstep boundaries for IRL gay people then what's the problem? shober

    uhm, its not about fiction. The post said something like “When you realize you dont have a dick so you cant do what the people are doing in what tou are reading” which is gay intecourse, Like they want to be gay just for the sake of sex,

    ThisIsADmup May 3, 2021 3:34 am
    Most fujoshis are LGBT+ people though, either bi/lesbian girls or closeted trans people so it's not fetishising whatsoever. Even if they're straight they should be allowed to read yaoi since plenty of people ca... shober

    uhmm its not about reading yaoi, its about fetishizing them

    shober May 3, 2021 1:08 pm
    Well actually a fujoshi is a straight girl who likes yaoi, by definition. someone who is gay and a “fujoshi” wouldn’t be called that! • r0ck •

    No it isn't, stop appropriating Japanese words. It literally just means woman who reads BL. Informative twitter thread of resources about it: https://twitter.com/_queerioes/status/1257759613652537344

    Look, I self identify as a fujin/fudanshi. I'm aro/ace and trans. Fujoshi has nothing to do with being straight.

    • r0ck • May 4, 2021 1:33 am
    No it isn't, stop appropriating Japanese words. It literally just means woman who reads BL. Informative twitter thread of resources about it: https://twitter.com/_queerioes/status/1257759613652537344Look, I sel... shober

    I’m not? The word fujoshi is normally used for straight or just women who read Yaoi??? I researched it and that’s what it said? Don’t fucking attack me for not knowing something

    shober May 4, 2021 2:37 am
    I’m not? The word fujoshi is normally used for straight or just women who read Yaoi??? I researched it and that’s what it said? Don’t fucking attack me for not knowing something • r0ck •

    I'm not trying to be malicious? I'm just saying you got the wrong info, there's no mention of sexuality in "fujoshi", it just refers to women who read BL, they can be lesbian/bi (which is commonly the case). And I linked some resources providing correct info. That's all.