Seriously the fl ain't blameless

Mehr.X May 2, 2021 8:30 pm

She herself led to her separation from her child.... of course it was because of her mental health... she couldn't approach her child but how can she blame him for that... as for the concubine side who knows what is the truth

Whether it was her child or husband she never her best for them never tried to overcome her problems

She was always lamenting on herself... depression

No sane person would leave a child to accompany someone who not rejects to touch her own child but not even mentally stable

The Duke did the right thing of course as for why the child wasn't close to her its normal

I don't think she is really reflecting on her past... like understanding what went wrong

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    youraedthiswrogn May 2, 2021 8:45 pm

    "She herself led to her separation from her child.... of course it was because of her mental health... she couldn't approach her child but how can she blame him for that..."

    This makes me want to say two things:

    - Postpartum depression is a thing, even entertaining that she was an emotional wreck, unless she's dangerous to the baby there's no reason to take it from her and keep her separated from it literally it's entire life up until she died.

    - Her mental health became an issue specifically *because* of his actions, she went insane not being able to see her baby and seeing another woman take her spot while she was locked up, we literally see for ourselves that in this timeline (where he didn't immediately take her baby away because she had trouble holding him after he was born), she got over the holding issue very quickly. He didn't give her a chance in the original timeline. As far as her current "issues", she just panicked... her baby was sick.

    "I don't think she is really reflecting on her past... like understanding what went wrong"

    You're either trolling, have absolutely no reading comprehension or are simping for the duke. This blatant refusal to see the plot is insane.

    camiv May 2, 2021 8:49 pm
    "She herself led to her separation from her child.... of course it was because of her mental health... she couldn't approach her child but how can she blame him for that..."This makes me want to say two things:... youraedthiswrogn

    agree so much with you

    youraedthiswrogn May 2, 2021 8:55 pm
    agree so much with you camiv

    The OP sounds delusional to me, it's literally insane to hold that opinion based on what we've seen. The mental gymnastics necessary are staggering.

    lalilatulip May 2, 2021 9:22 pm

    No sane person would leave their child to the ex fiancee who got pushed aside and got her man stolen by some woman with more power, would she sincerely raised that woman son?

    Mehr.X May 2, 2021 9:27 pm
    "She herself led to her separation from her child.... of course it was because of her mental health... she couldn't approach her child but how can she blame him for that..."This makes me want to say two things:... youraedthiswrogn

    I don't like the Duke one bit

    But there seems to be many misunderstanding

    That's why I'm not yet sure what to say about him whether pity him or cursing him

    I haven't reached the point of lets forgive him its the past situation yet...

    However I don't agree with you saying that he caused her to be like this

    When it was the death of her mother and brother accident and her father attitude that turned her this way

    His attitude in the funeral people opinions on her... made her weak already she was already mentally unhealthy when she met the ML

    He probably made it worse by ignoring her... but it takes two to hold onto a relationship

    If you can't even take care of yourself, you can't take care of a relationship... she wasn't even fit to handle people in the Duke house, her low self esteem made her not approach him... as he himself ignored her... everything can't be pushed onto him no matter how I find him not likeable

    She wasn't close to her child... as for what reason he took the child away it must have something to do with her mental health

    Mentally unstable people influence people around them especially children, it doesn't have to be abuse, children are sensitive, they feel adults attitude, and sometimes or many times it influence them... hence it is really not appropriate to put her child by side

    Its easy to blame other characters when things are told from one point of view...

    So even if I'm disgusted with the ML action shown from her point of view I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt

    But I'm not denying the plot either

    There are so many things that happened to her but I can't understand her current actions much, probably because it's too early

    But I stand my point the fact that things went wrong ain't all his fault

    You know cheaters are disgusting


    But did really cheat here?

    We just saw the woman next to him

    She could have approached his son made emotional connection between the child and her

    So the ML let her accompany the child

    She probably used the child as her means to approach the ML

    I've read a few rebirth stories where there were the so called mistress but it wasnt the case so I can't help give the benefit of the to ML when it comes to this, hence even if I dislike the ML for ignoring the fl I also dislike the fl for not reflecting on how it wasnt just the ML but both of them who had fault

    Loving someone well great thing but if don't show them what is the point? How do they return your feelings? How do they even know?

    of course if the ML really did cheat I would cheat I would probably drop it and never read again

    I can't stand cheating the most to the point even reading or watching something related gives me chill literally

    So yes please don't think I'm just bashing the fl and taking ML side.... because of some kind of delusion...

    Sorry it was long

    youraedthiswrogn May 2, 2021 9:34 pm
    I don't like the Duke one bitBut there seems to be many misunderstanding That's why I'm not yet sure what to say about him whether pity him or cursing him I haven't reached the point of lets forgive him its the... Mehr.X

    Okay, so it's a reading comprehension issue. Got it.

    Mehr.X May 2, 2021 9:47 pm
    Okay, so it's a reading comprehension issue. Got it. youraedthiswrogn

    No its just a different opinion

    NeetyNayd v 2.0 May 2, 2021 10:17 pm
    "She herself led to her separation from her child.... of course it was because of her mental health... she couldn't approach her child but how can she blame him for that..."This makes me want to say two things:... youraedthiswrogn

    You are back in correcting people's opinion.. It has been a long time since I read your comments

    Ruby May 2, 2021 10:40 pm
    The OP sounds delusional to me, it's literally insane to hold that opinion based on what we've seen. The mental gymnastics necessary are staggering. youraedthiswrogn

    I don't like the main lead either but the real question is to ask is did he know she had a mental condition? and sure she fix easily in this timeline that's because she knows what's going to happen from his point of view he didn't want the child to grow up with a hating mother I would think she thinks her son is disgusting or something and she doesn't want to touch him and I if just saw the behavior she exhibited before she died I wouldn't trust her with the kid either now if he did know that I'll be another thing I'm sure we're going to go look more into the past and see what's the dealio so until then let's not hate on people for their opinions ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    NeetyNayd v 2.0 May 2, 2021 10:43 pm
    I don't like the main lead either but the real question is to ask is did he know she had a mental condition? and sure she fix easily in this timeline that's because she knows what's going to happen from his poi... Ruby

    She got reincarnated... Remember?? That is why she knew what is up... Her remembering her previous life made her have some sense of judgement..

    Ruby May 2, 2021 10:49 pm
    She got reincarnated... Remember?? That is why she knew what is up... Her remembering her previous life made her have some sense of judgement.. NeetyNayd v 2.0

    What the f*** did I just say did you not read my comment ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I just said previous timeline and because she knows what's going to happen already I know she f****** reincarnated .....what are you trying to say do u not understand what I said? ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶

    NeetyNayd v 2.0 May 2, 2021 10:55 pm
    What the f*** did I just say did you not read my comment ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ I just said previous timeline and because she knows what's going to happen already I know she f****** reincarnated .....what are you tr... Ruby

    Ooops... Sorry, my mistake

    youraedthiswrogn May 2, 2021 11:07 pm
    You are back in correcting people's opinion.. It has been a long time since I read your comments NeetyNayd v 2.0

    I don't remember you, I'm sorry.

    NeetyNayd v 2.0 May 2, 2021 11:10 pm
    I don't remember you, I'm sorry. youraedthiswrogn

    That is fine... I think I did talk to you last time in my old account

    youraedthiswrogn May 2, 2021 11:13 pm
    That is fine... I think I did talk to you last time in my old account NeetyNayd v 2.0

    For clarity, do you have a good or bad impression of me?

    NeetyNayd v 2.0 May 2, 2021 11:40 pm
    For clarity, do you have a good or bad impression of me? youraedthiswrogn

    I think in the end.. I got a good impression of you.. You are good with your opinions

    youraedthiswrogn May 3, 2021 1:30 am
    I think in the end.. I got a good impression of you.. You are good with your opinions NeetyNayd v 2.0

    Thank you :^D

    camiv May 3, 2021 3:03 am
    The OP sounds delusional to me, it's literally insane to hold that opinion based on what we've seen. The mental gymnastics necessary are staggering. youraedthiswrogn

    I'm reading the novel that's why I think the same as you