I thought bdsm wasn't so much about drawing blood but more... I dunno... clamps and leathe...

SkitKat12 April 30, 2016 2:16 am

I thought bdsm wasn't so much about drawing blood but more... I dunno... clamps and leather whips.... Like... I know theres different kinds but I felt like some things were abuse. Like smacking him and causing him to bleed was a little cringe worthy for me. The foot was okay . And I'm sorry but did anyone else notice how he just flung the butt plug away X'D. I hope no kid or dog finds that lmao. In fact I hope no one finds that XDDDDD

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    Tolly April 30, 2016 2:44 am

    That was the point, this relationship wasn't working bc he wanted to hurt him and the stuff he did weren't to cause pleasure. Why Tobita didn't say anything then? Bc he'd anything to please Masumi. And that's so sad.

    Mameiha April 30, 2016 9:59 pm
    That was the point, this relationship wasn't working bc he wanted to hurt him and the stuff he did weren't to cause pleasure. Why Tobita didn't say anything then? Bc he'd anything to please Masumi. And that's... Tolly

    You are utterly clueless about BDSM. Tobito enjoyed the pain. It wasn't working because Masumi wanted a "normal" relationship and "normal" sex is unfulfilling to a person who has severe masochistic tendencies. I speak from intimate experience. I can't have "sweet" or "normal" sex. There is no turn on. Tobito is the same. Even though Masumi was turned on by the "rough" play he wanted to deny it and be "normal". Tobito recognized this and gave Masumi an out. Most people assume that the "violence" in BDSM is devoid of love, but nothing could be further from the truth. If your lover likes a foot massage and you give them one to the best of your ability, that is showing your love. For am M, they like pain - giving them what they enjoy to the best of your ability is also showing your love. There is so much more trust in a BDSM relationship than a "normal" one. In normal sex your life is not left entirely in the hands of your lover. The bond is very different.

    Tolly May 2, 2016 2:29 am
    You are utterly clueless about BDSM. Tobito enjoyed the pain. It wasn't working because Masumi wanted a "normal" relationship and "normal" sex is unfulfilling to a person who has severe masochistic tendencies. ... Mameiha

    I didn't say that violence is devoid of love, I said that in this case their aim was different. as you said, Masumi wanted something different and Tobito could tell that he wanted to hurt him bc he didn't feel the same way and not bc he was interesting it. That's the point. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    Tolly May 2, 2016 2:30 am
    I didn't say that violence is devoid of love, I said that in this case their aim was different. as you said, Masumi wanted something different and Tobito could tell that he wanted to hurt him bc he didn't feel ... Tolly

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