I know! The ML didn't even try in his relationship and shouldn't be bitching 'woe'st me!' when his wife equally suffered in the relationship. He broke his marital vows by being with another woman. She may have been overbearing, but I can understand. If she moved into the household wouldn't her husband be her one and only ally? wouldn't she be alone here? There is a good webtoon where the villaness was adopted and abused by her family so she acted out like a villainess, but we saw why she was acting that way and realized that she was the true victim of the story all along. I really sympathize with the villain (if tjey have a reason ad aren't just sadists)
Say, what happened to the original wife then ??? It's always the ML's fiancee or wife who's the villainess.. Why ??? Because the asshole fell for another woman ??? And then comes a modern transmigrator.. The ML will turn around.. The heroine will become the new villainess.. blah blah blah.. Why does the ML get to live happily .. huh ???
The original sufferer doesn't even matter anymore.. Like she didn't even have the right to live.. So make her soul vanish.. Poof !!! And then everyone lived happily ever after .. The End ..