yeah tbh i know this might have to do with my comment but lets be honest his chest was looking kinda like a womens and that boy is really skinny so he shouldn't have that problem and yeah this is also a response to the other one about the bara and shit can get really weird and its kinda hard to read because they also look like they're on steroids. i do get your opinion and stuff im just saying they just make it look like an actual women i love my skinny, slim dudes hell i love the tops to be skinny as well and i know that some can look feminine and stuff im just expressing my opinion and i also hate the fact people barley draw body hair as well sorry if im just rambling and you can't understand where im going from
i understand your pov!! tbh yea they rarely draw body hair too bc it looks cleaner
& attractive but we shld normalize body hair! i dont read bara bc its not my type but i mean whether a guy looks like a woman or not, i mean its still yaoi sex. like guys who crossdress in yaoi mangas, i think it all depends on your own preference but i dont mind you having preferences but some people here expect yaoi to be buff men & not feminine men with slim structures and possibly a little fat in their boob area. you are fine! just some ppl comment uneccesary things
i agree, it’s really disheartening how vitriolic people are when a couple doesn’t suit their preference — because that’s exactly what it is. a preference
sorry if im ranting i’m just very tired of this attitude, esp those who claim that apparently feminine men in a couple is straight washing or something ridiculous like that, or another reason with buzzwords when it’s really down to their own preferences (which there is nothing wrong with!)
ya like why do people do such weird mental gymnastic to postulate their own moral superiority in some way? why. it’s just a yaoi, it’s not that deep
just say you personally don’t like it... like why do people say it’s straight washing when they’re both men, like do they even hear themselves... the irony is that by claiming these things they actually are doing the thing they’re accusing the yaoi of doing — straight washing a yaoi just because one guy is more feminine. stupid af, they dilute the meaning of these terms by doing this
last rant i promise ;^; lol, just your comment really hit a chord with me. i see these comments too much lately on mangago
i think you’re making way too big a deal about this. like what point are you even trying to make?? that a feminine boy looks too feminine?
that’s it’s not a realistic depiction of a feminine boy? you’re complaining about realism? in a yaoi?? or are we cycling back to ‘feminine guys ugh looks too much a girl feels like i’m reading a hentai’?
you obvs have a preference for buff dudes so do yourself a favour and stop wasting time on something you’re not even into, like why’re you still here? move on with your life
u know its okay for guys to be smaller than girls right? i have friends shorter n built smaller than me and its OKAY. they arent any less of a man they are. if u like buff guys, u clearly dont need to have to say anything in this convo? im talking abt feminine guys being discriminated. im sorry they have more fats around their boobs than you? it cldve been genetics and im sorry they weigh less? why cant guys weight less or the same as girls? what...
its scary how i see comments that says yaoi characters shouldnt have feminine characteristics bc it feels like they are reading straight sex instead of gay sex....there are other stories you can find to fit your...fetish like bara with big muscular men but stating it like that shows that you clearly fetishsize 2 grown men having sex for your own pleasure and if it doesnt fits your qualifications suddenly its just straight hentai? not all men are buff. some have builds that are feminine and its kinda sad if a guy came across these comments and see yall clearly saying femininity in gay stuff is just like straight hentai bc they dont exist to fit for your viewing pleasure like if you dont like this type, move on and go. you dont have to express unnessary dislike/hate and you clearly are straight if u can make insensitive comments like this. im sorry if i sound serious but can we all think before posting? i get that you have preferences but expressing such strong dislike towards femininity in yaoi is just wow. thats some strong stereotype that men should look and be feminine.