the only thing I really dislike about Mr.Han and why I didn't want him with Param is cause he skips from guy to guy and has sex with them/using them without a care for anyone's feelings but himself. and when he gets bored with them, he throws them away. I just can't forgive him for that even if he wanted to change for Param, dude could he not do that before he tries to hit on Param?!
so yeas, even if he change for him in the end, I still don't like Mr.Han.
Wydm he respected their relationship :/ the uke said he had feelings for someone else and Mr.Han said it’s Hwi isn’t it then proceeded to have sex with him knowingly. That’s not respect. Although, I get it bc he just wanted param and tried his best but that definitely is an interruption in their relationship considering hwi tried to end the relationship when he found out. And Mr.Han hurt param a lot in the beginning and played with him in the beginning so he didn’t change until he realized he had feelings for him. He was definitely a bad guy from jump. Past mistakes doesn’t define who we are and I’m glad he changed but his bad and good side should be acknowledged.
Yeah he did that but after the last time he did it he refused to meet that boy right? That's where he started to change and what's my point is he wasn't manipulative like trying to change Param's mind and also in that chapters Param wasn't sure who he had feelings for. After doing it Mr.Han he figured it out that hr has feelings for Hwi. In most BL when uke leaves seme for another seme they start being manipulative. My point is in here that Mr.Han didn't do that or spread any weird rumour so he truly loved Param and he respects his relationship without trying to do anything weird
Yea he was a bad person in the beginning but I'm glad he changed
The problem is that he didn’t have sex with param AFTER he figured out param liked hwi he already KNEW param was in love with hwi and said that BEFORE having sex with him. I’m not saying he doesn’t deserve happiness. we both agree that he’s better now and he deserves happiness now but when he decided to have sex with param knowing that he was in love/with someone else that was still a shitty thing to do. Mr.Han after the chapter when he realized param chose hwi for sure that’s when he changed Fr. My point is just that he has respect for their relationship AFTER he figured out it was too late. Bc he already showed (when he had sex with param) that he wanted param at any cost and that’s not respectful. Just want to acknowledge that he has major flaws.
he felt very manipulative when he acts like he does not know Param "feelings" for him and while playing the fool he kisses him out of nowhere. and yeah I hated that part, I hated how he can just play around with Param feelings and keep playing games with him while not giving a shit almost until the end and the sex part.
Mr Han was manipulative from the start since he lies about not knowing his feelings until the very end after they had sex, Mr han know Param was confused about his feelings for some else and he still uses it to have sex with him. that fucking shitty from his part and even if he changes later, he still an asshole for what he did to Param.
oh wow so Param need to be grateful the asshole that use his feelings to have sex with him didn't spread any weird rumour? that isn't enough to prove he really love Param at all or had any respect for him! what prove it is that he didn't try to go after Param and wish him happiness, that shows that he changes from being an asshole and did love Param. but it was better for him to let him go after the horrible things he did to him, that shows he is mature enough to get that.
so I be okay if he get with someone else in a healthy way. that will be better too
Yea he did a mistake at that part when he knew Param loved Hwi ( but Param was still confused about who he loved to he did it with Mr.Han then felt guilty for it) . Thankfully he's not like that now
Yea thank you for spending your time explaining this. I'm not good at explaining this in a good way so there might be some misunderstanding but you gave it a light
Yes, this is what I was tryna say. Thank you.
It’s okay. Your point is valid to tho. I was just so frustrated with him as a character but that’s just my opinion. You have every right to like him and sympathize how you want with him.
I'm going to say that I didn't hate Mr.Han, from the very beginning I liked him. Yea he might have made mistakes but that doesn't mean we don't too, we can't just assume him as a bad person cuz of his past self. I could see he wanted to change and really loved Param but Param loved Hwi. So he didn't interrupt, he respected their relationship. Cuz of people's hate comments he came out as a bad person. I hope y'all opinion changes or it's up to you. I love Hwi and Param so much hope to see more of this Author's work!<3