you cant tell people with trauma how to deal with their trauma. we have different ways of coping mechanisms. for the uke, it's most likely to be like that. he doesn't know who will hurt him and who will take care of him. so he's relying on his way to protect his self. it's just like the phrase "men are trash." i mean, yes not all men, but it's enough "men" to say that men are trash. hence, his views on people around him is like that. because "enough" person (his father) made him like that. he developed that extreme trauma in such a young age. he didnt even experience being guided in what should be right and wrong. that's why the way he acts is like that. it can also be something elese. but for people with traumas, they cope with it with the ways they know. i hope you get it.
I wish i could like your comment, the way you explained it was so perfect
trauma is an explanation, but not an excuse. hurting others who have done nothing wrong is still not ok, when he was a kid it wasn’t his fault but now that he's an adult it’s his responsibility to get help
yes, you are right. trauma is not an excuse. but as i said, we have different ways of coping and protecting ourselves. in his case, that's his way. do you understand his character? maybe if he knows that there's really someone who wants to protect him and not harm him, he will act differently. maybe if he ever found someone (while he was still young) that will guide him to the right direction, he wont be like that. but who can do that when he has trust issues (you can also see that in his character)? so all those "maybes" are nothing to him because the people around him makes him uncomfortable and he thinks that they all just want to touch him. also, he can seek psychological therapy, yes. it's his responsibility to make sure that his metal health is in check. but does he even have money? can his current life manage to afford it?
But you’re acting like he wants to be mean he knows his uncle is in debt and took him in but he didn’t know his intention along with the trauma he has it makes it harder to trust so I know it’s not an excuse but get off of him because he just trying to cope with it
if it's sangwoo or seungho you exact same people come and tell me trauma isn't a excuse but here you using it as an excuse, pls-
bro, the case of mc here is way way different from sangwoo and seungho's case. the latter has trauma and other (extreme?) mental disorders. it is not the same. they are not the same. seungho and sangwoo's case are not just because of trauma. there are other factors that affected them to be what they are in their current "life". and i am not using mc's trauma to excuse his behavior. im just saying that he has different ways of dealing with his trauma. that he chose the choice that is different from yours or other ppl. that's why we have differences. every people's situation differs from each other. there are not "same" situation. but there are "similar" situation. there may be similar situation between mc here and sangwoo and seungho, but their cases are different. if you dont understand the characters here, just say you dont understand them. dont push what you want to other people.
i didn't push anything on you, you replied to me bruh. And i didn't talk about sangwoo and seungho's case being the same as him, i said YOU are the SAME persons who come and say it's not an excuse but use it as one yourself. Of course trauma is different, but in the end it's still trauma. Seungho grew up with an abusive homophobic dad that took him as "sick" for being gay. Anyways this, seems familiar right? it's almost same shit as the mc here. He became abusive and didn't trust anyone and saw them as sex toys and this mc came to like abuse and is the same with the other points.
Smh you must have a Great Fucking life since you obviously can’t see his point of view
my life could be the shitiest, i had an abusive shit dad too that i suffered from so much that i left my country and can never go back again, in another country now everyone is being racist against you. Best life, yeah?
Well I can’t flee and I had an abusive step mother yea and my dad treats me like shit
Fr i think in general if its the seme that is mean, everyone is hating on him but if it comes to uke, everyone feels sorry
It not only this manhwa I could name at least 2
Ikr thank you that what I’ve been trying to tell people
that was what i was saying too but you were against me oh well whatever i don't understand
why is he so rude? just cause he wants to be hit and hurt doesn't mean he can just yell at his uncle who just tries to help him even tho he doesn't got much for himself like that.... he didn't do anything wrong to deserve that- the problem is he thinks only him himself is right and everyone else is wrong, like helping someone must mean they want something in return. And it's not even like that, his uncle didn't want anything back....