I'll give you my honest opinion.
From their perspective, yes. Rather than bad, it's more like weird? They couldn't even fathom why would you, a guy, even read BL. If you face the reality that not all people are as accepting, then it's better to keep it a secret. There's no harm done.
I guess other people would say that your friends are scums for not accepting who you are. But well, if that's the only aspect of your friend you disagree with, then I'd still say he's a keeper. Just be aware that you are never bad for liking what you like. You have a community here who understand why exactly BL is gem.
it's normal in their eyes, so don't put blame too much on other, too.
You know, like.. something different which you do but the other didn't do is called strange / abnormal for them.
but this abnormal of yours is yours only and you have the right to liking it and live within it, it's just not all of them will accept you and open their arm widely for you because of that.
just think about someone whom survive eating snake-meat when you normally eat rice and chicken. isn't it abnormal? strange? sick? No nonono, just don't put yourself as the one who talk bad like that, keep your distance and get a life. that's all okay.
oh, and you're welcome.
it's just the way people living their life.
it's not their fault, also not your fault.
what's wrong with your body? If you didn't do something bad don't felt bad just because of someone bad-mouthing you.
don't do that to yourself, that's not nice, that's not good.
let them get their way of living and you too, let's live the way you like. It's not like you get to eat and sleep from them. your live is you who decide and you know what is the best for yourself, don't let other people always hurt you, you are not victim.
once again, it's not their fault, also not your fault. understand it and face it. it's okay
fujoshi disini....
em.. spertinya kita mengalami hal yang sama. (let me curcol) aq bru 2 bulan jadi fujoshi,,, udah ketahuan ... haha kasusnya sama kyk kamu, laptop dibuka sma temen, abis itu diceramahi panjang lebar ^_^. sempet down. yah, bukan slah mereka juga sih,
but then I just do what I want to. toh yang aku lakukan g ngaruh sama diya. dan juga g ngebuat aku jadi bad person-menurutku-
sante aja. tapi jangan lakukan hal yang bisa ngebuat orang ngomong "th kan gara baca manga/BL tuh"..(▰˘◡˘▰)
Indo kah? Menijikan atau engganya tergantung merekanya juga, mungkin awalnya mrk ngalamin culture shock, dan kemudian yaudah biasa aja, kalau aku begitu, ketika temen2 kelas aku tau aku fujoshi dan pada saat ini juga temen kelas aku ada 3 org dan mereka gay, mrk awalnya kaget, tapi skrng biasa aja malah mrk penasaran. Yah aku berfikir postif aja sih pandangan mrk gimana, selama merekanya juga oke aja dan ga protes sama kita, dan aku juga ga merasa mereka menyebalkan. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Semangat teman, ga usah dengerin pendapat orang lain, just be ur self,
hi guys, i just want a opinion from you all.
is being a fudanshi is bad people?
i just caught read BL by my friends.
it's already 2 days, he still think i'm gross to read BL.
it hurt me so much T.T