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Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 10:18 am

hi guys, i just want a opinion from you all.
is being a fudanshi is bad people?
i just caught read BL by my friends.
it's already 2 days, he still think i'm gross to read BL.
it hurt me so much T.T

Responses
    nickname April 17, 2016 10:33 am

    in our country, yes.
    you must take extra care about your surrounding before read / watch it, expt around the one that knowing & accept you read / watch it,

    Mel April 17, 2016 10:52 am

    Aww (︶︿︶)=凸 dont feel bad!! Everyone is entitled to like whatever they want. You're not gross for liking yaoi; your friend just needs to respect your interests

    chachacha April 17, 2016 11:01 am

    I'll give you my honest opinion.

    From their perspective, yes. Rather than bad, it's more like weird? They couldn't even fathom why would you, a guy, even read BL. If you face the reality that not all people are as accepting, then it's better to keep it a secret. There's no harm done.

    I guess other people would say that your friends are scums for not accepting who you are. But well, if that's the only aspect of your friend you disagree with, then I'd still say he's a keeper. Just be aware that you are never bad for liking what you like. You have a community here who understand why exactly BL is gem.

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    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:08 am
    in our country, yes.you must take extra care about your surrounding before read / watch it, expt around the one that knowing & accept you read / watch it, nickname

    it just guy kiss with other guy, not sex scene. but he judge me worst and sick :'(
    yeah, i think i should beware again sometime. thankss :')

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    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:09 am
    Aww (︶︿︶)=凸 dont feel bad!! Everyone is entitled to like whatever they want. You're not gross for liking yaoi; your friend just needs to respect your interests Mel

    not just gross. he judge me worst and sick people :'(
    thanks for your support :')

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    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:13 am
    I'll give you my honest opinion. From their perspective, yes. Rather than bad, it's more like weird? They couldn't even fathom why would you, a guy, even read BL. If you face the reality that not all people are... chachacha

    yeah i think weird is better than bad. but he judge me worst and sick. how bad was that? :'(
    i just can consult at this group only, cause i dont want any people judge me more. thanks for your support btw :')

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    nickname April 17, 2016 11:20 am
    it just guy kiss with other guy, not sex scene. but he judge me worst and sick :'(yeah, i think i should beware again sometime. thankss :') Me-Fudanshi

    it's normal in their eyes, so don't put blame too much on other, too.
    You know, like.. something different which you do but the other didn't do is called strange / abnormal for them.
    but this abnormal of yours is yours only and you have the right to liking it and live within it, it's just not all of them will accept you and open their arm widely for you because of that.

    just think about someone whom survive eating snake-meat when you normally eat rice and chicken. isn't it abnormal? strange? sick? No nonono, just don't put yourself as the one who talk bad like that, keep your distance and get a life. that's all okay.

    oh, and you're welcome.

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    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:32 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! fudanshi

    yeah, this is my fault too. i left my notebook go to pee and forgot to lock. my friend come and watch it, after i back he told me gross :'(
    thanks for your response :')

    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:36 am
    it's normal in their eyes, so don't put blame too much on other, too.You know, like.. something different which you do but the other didn't do is called strange / abnormal for them. but this abnormal of yours i... nickname

    but why they must judge too hard. T.T
    i just feel like to cure this body which has worst disease :'(

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    nickname April 17, 2016 11:46 am
    but why they must judge too hard. T.Ti just feel like to cure this body which has worst disease :'( Me-Fudanshi

    it's just the way people living their life.
    it's not their fault, also not your fault.
    what's wrong with your body? If you didn't do something bad don't felt bad just because of someone bad-mouthing you.
    don't do that to yourself, that's not nice, that's not good.
    let them get their way of living and you too, let's live the way you like. It's not like you get to eat and sleep from them. your live is you who decide and you know what is the best for yourself, don't let other people always hurt you, you are not victim.
    once again, it's not their fault, also not your fault. understand it and face it. it's okay

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    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:52 am
    This reply will be showed after approved! fudanshi

    i really appreciate it. thank you so much :)

    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 11:58 am
    it's just the way people living their life.it's not their fault, also not your fault.what's wrong with your body? If you didn't do something bad don't felt bad just because of someone bad-mouthing you.don't do ... nickname

    thank you so much. i should learn to think positive just like you then :')

    ~Yuki~ April 17, 2016 12:13 pm

    If it just read then don't bother with what others think. And don't get caught. But if you turn to love a man in the end then you're in deep shit cause everything's gonna be sooo wrong ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 12:15 pm
    If it just read then don't bother with what others think. And don't get caught. But if you turn to love a man in the end then you're in deep shit cause everything's gonna be sooo wrong ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ ~Yuki~

    hahaha, sorry if im wrong then. i coming out already :)

    hyeori_chan April 17, 2016 12:38 pm

    fujoshi disini....
    em.. spertinya kita mengalami hal yang sama. (let me curcol) aq bru 2 bulan jadi fujoshi,,, udah ketahuan ... haha kasusnya sama kyk kamu, laptop dibuka sma temen, abis itu diceramahi panjang lebar ^_^. sempet down. yah, bukan slah mereka juga sih,
    but then I just do what I want to. toh yang aku lakukan g ngaruh sama diya. dan juga g ngebuat aku jadi bad person-menurutku-
    sante aja. tapi jangan lakukan hal yang bisa ngebuat orang ngomong "th kan gara baca manga/BL tuh"..(▰˘◡˘▰)

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    Ms pervert April 17, 2016 1:38 pm

    Indo kah? Menijikan atau engganya tergantung merekanya juga, mungkin awalnya mrk ngalamin culture shock, dan kemudian yaudah biasa aja, kalau aku begitu, ketika temen2 kelas aku tau aku fujoshi dan pada saat ini juga temen kelas aku ada 3 org dan mereka gay, mrk awalnya kaget, tapi skrng biasa aja malah mrk penasaran. Yah aku berfikir postif aja sih pandangan mrk gimana, selama merekanya juga oke aja dan ga protes sama kita, dan aku juga ga merasa mereka menyebalkan. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 1:48 pm
    fujoshi disini....em.. spertinya kita mengalami hal yang sama. (let me curcol) aq bru 2 bulan jadi fujoshi,,, udah ketahuan ... haha kasusnya sama kyk kamu, laptop dibuka sma temen, abis itu diceramahi panjang... hyeori_chan

    salam kenal, fudanshi disini.
    yang sakitnya dibilang orang2 kyk aku berpenyakitan.
    sempet kebayang aja nanti dia nyebar-nyebarin ke temen2 trus temen2 anggep jijik juga :'(

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    Me-Fudanshi April 17, 2016 1:52 pm
    Indo kah? Menijikan atau engganya tergantung merekanya juga, mungkin awalnya mrk ngalamin culture shock, dan kemudian yaudah biasa aja, kalau aku begitu, ketika temen2 kelas aku tau aku fujoshi dan pada saat in... @Ms pervert

    iya indo. salam kenal :)
    kurang tau sih apa mungkin ini baru di awal. soalnya di awal aja udh sakit di kata-katain, gmn nanti?
    btw terima kasih ya, akhirnya ada orang indo yg ngedukung aku (●'◡'●)ノ

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    si fujoshi cantik April 17, 2016 2:17 pm

    Semangat teman, ga usah dengerin pendapat orang lain, just be ur self,

    hyeori_chan April 17, 2016 2:21 pm
    salam kenal, fudanshi disini.yang sakitnya dibilang orang2 kyk aku berpenyakitan.sempet kebayang aja nanti dia nyebar-nyebarin ke temen2 trus temen2 anggep jijik juga :'( Me-Fudanshi

    I know how you feel////
    tapi kamu orangnya sensitive kan ya..... sama...
    jadi usahakan bersikap biasa aja... jangan terus kamu menyendiri/menghindar dari temen2 itu justru akan ngebuat kamu digosipin...
    (▰˘◡˘▰)

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