Be he didn’t say that tho he said “Please just bear with me for a bit” which is far better than “just bear with it” don’t put him in the same category as those other alphas, he asked multiple time if he should stop and before you say he did say to stop he really didn’t he said “wait” which in sex translates to just go slower
They just always makes it seem that pleasure is so overwelming that they wouldn't stop or slow down when asked. Tho im not a sex haver so it always seems scary to me to trust someone that much. These words maybe are intended to be hot and sexy but always sounds concerning to me.
That's fucked up it even made me tear up. It's always with the tops saying: "Just bear with it, I can't stop now' That makes me sooo uncomfy