ngl dg was very toxic too

so ik i will get alot of people coming here to defend dg but pls before forming an opinion hear me out and no this isnt hate to mingwa its just something i noticed on dg character after rereading it. dg had always a crush on jiwon and revoled all of his world around him which i understand his feelings but it became a bit extreme where he forced himself into jiwon private life like coming to all of these assumption about jiwon past love life and even feelings, he didnt know his boundaries and gave himself hope even though jiwon has stated multiple times in his live streams and even to dg himsefl he wasnt interested for a relationship and he didnt like them so he only wanted a sex partner but even tho all the warnings and rejections dg wtill went on and force his feelings on to jiwon so when he gpt rejected or mad at he tried to victimise himself in every situation which he was sometimes like when jiwon physicaly forced himself on dg and hurt him that where dg was completly the victim but there are other instances he wasnt for example where jiwon got mad when dg ruined his live and said he was his boyfriend when he wasnt and forced jiwon to stop it there i completely sided with jiwon but i understood that dg was drunk but when someone is drunk they sometimes show their true colors and thats exaclty what he did, he tried to gaslight jiwon by shifting the blame on him for not accepting his feeling and ik alot of people will say that jiwon played with dg feelings which he didnt he said it plain and simple from the begining that he told him not to fall inlove with him and dont think that their dating but when he realised that dg loves him he quickly cut connection with him and after told him that he clearly stated from the beginning that he wants a sex partner not a lover but dg even knowing the conditions he still dumped all his feelings on him like its his responsible for them which jiwon isnt dg is and then he quickly started talking about jiwon ex assuming he was his lover which even chanwoo told him that he most likely its someone that hurt him and people that dont like being inlove tend to be hurt by it which even chanwoo who never met jiwon at the time knew more about jiwon then dg did, at that dg pissed off jiwon because he snooped around his private belonging and made assumption about it which any one will be pissed about and i dont agree with jiwon hitting him but dg was being unbareble and suffocating at that moment anybody wouldve reacted the same way as jiwon even dg but then he acted lik he was the victim and didnt even apologize for everything but the thing that didnt sat with me the most are on chaps 34 and 35 where dg took advantage of jiwon drunken state and had sex with him. in that chapter jiwon was drunk and when he was vunrable and strong at the same time because he literaly almost fell and coudnt stand straight and even where he was able to overpower dg, he still was vunerable because when dg told him stop he asked him does he not liek him and at that moment dg couldve told jiwon no for his sake but instead acted selfishly after and literaly said that he wont have a moment like this again and he should enjoy it, and at that moment i was disgusted by dg actions and left a sour taste in my mouth plus to top it all off he acted like the victim liek he didnt just rape jiwon which jiwon also raped dg but at least he did the bare minimum by repayin him back and doing whatever he wanted while dg didnt even do that or anything and victimising himself is one of dg biggest toxic traits plus many more. i also didnt like the fact how jiwon was the only one who had develpoment which was very much needed but dg also needed one because he was also toxic and at fault but he was always vcitimised throughout the whole story so we were never able to see how wrong were his actions and its sad seeing people praise dg but still shit on jiwon even tho hes just as toxic as he is and tend to ignore his toxicity but yea thats what i noticed and i wouldlike to hear other people point of veiw on it as well so anyways stan md and chanwoo as the superior couple