I understand. That makes sense. Sometime I think that my path have already been laid out, I just need to fulfill it.Thinking this way confort me a lot in life since one of many life motto I have is “whatever happens happens” which then leads me to thinking that everything is gonna be alright whatever I do. I also agree with what your saying. I believe in both our theory it just depends on the situation for example if it’s something to motivate myself to achieve something I want then what your saying wound make sense but if it’s something sad or bad happened in my life I probably would believe that my future was already decided and that everything happens for a reason.(GOLY, I got sidetracked)
*crying because i'll never have what they have*