some people have r@pe kink/fetish, that's okay as long as it is fictional. In fiction, you...

Exactly

"Tell me you're a rape fetisher without telling me you're a rape fetisher"

ofc its a fetish?? and you can have rape roleplay in the bedroom as long as there a two consenting adults. What's wrong with that?

Because it's role-play. And in role play, there is CONSENT. So don't associate rape fetisher to people in role play, pls, as a bdsmer. This is extremely dangerous to the community.

but people also find gratification from fiction hence mangas like this exist because there is an audience. What's not clicking?

These are pages and drawing, they literally dont exist. So you cant point out saying people who enjoy them evil because they are not victims. Before you come for me, consider what my therapist says about rape kink "it's okay to indulge in fictional rape kink because there are no victims. But you need to have a clear line between and with fantasy and reality"

If you can't tell the difference between fiction and reality, I suggest you actually seek help. Go to a therapist.

I suggest reading a book called America's War on Sex by Marty Klein. A good book on how people view on sex and how they react to it. Like you, people who feel that who think only their view in sex is valid tend to demonise others. Give this a go, maybe you'll learn something. Read chapter 6

I already have therapy because I was rape when I was 10. Your opinion is valid but for me, people with rape kink shouldn't be associated with the bdsm community because it is harmful towards it as a lot of people consider dom as "legal abusers". I believe rape fetishiser are disgusting as my therapist agrees with me so do my friends and family. I personally find people who think rape is arousing(fictional or not) disgusting. Maybe it's because of my experience IDK, but my opinion is valid and won't change. I did studied Klein's AWoS and didn't change my opinion. If you don't think it's sick, good for you but many people won't agree with you, accept it. It's a matter of opinion, nobody is "demonising" anybody as it is clearly a matte of opinion and it's gonna vary and that's okay.

Of course you can disagree with rape kink BUT you cannot project that anger to people who do enjoy it. Don't call people disgusting online just because they enjoy what you don't because that action itself it disgusting

"It's a matter of opinion, nobody is "demonising" anybody as it is clearly a matte of opinion and it's gonna vary and that's okay"

remember you did call me "Tell me you're a rape fetisher without telling me you're a rape fetisher" when all i commented wad that it's okay to like weird kinks in fiction.

Go stand in a mirror and reflect at yourself as well. Good bye.

I'm sorry that I kink-shamed you. I'm sorry that the way I formulated my opinion offended you, I completely understand how frustrating and belittling it is to be kink-shamed. I do not need to "reflect on myself" because I'm level headed enough to understand when I fuck up. But if I couldn't have know you personally have a rape kink, I would have formulated my opinion in a less straightforward matter I did.

Apology accepted. It didn't matter if you did know me personally, you should never do that to anyone. ever.

I'm glad that we came to an understanding. I definitely should learn to formulate my opinion in a less straightforward manner.