but she was the one who promised under the conditions, he specifically told her that it might take him a suppperrrr long time to get back, but she said she didn’t care. so she’s also at fault here
Welp. Even if I were in her situation, I would also tire my self out waiting for him. It's already hard to wait for someone for a year, heck the 8 years of waiting must be painful for her. And yes, she promised to wait, but uhmmm... you know, waiting for someone for that long without hearing any words from him for the years that he's gone... that's just not it (〜￣△￣)〜
That's right like it's war time and what if and what if he dies in war and no news come to her? It's really so hard to wait for someone without hearing from that person for so many years. So what you say is true, she's not in fault here. At least he could have written letters to her even if secretly (unless he is a prince soon to be emperor in a dire situation)
Did he really just...insinuate she ran away from him? Boy you left her for years and really expected her to just rot away at a church while waiting for you? Istg what kinda mindset is that. He also said he “finally found her” you didn’t do a good search if you couldn’t find a girl who used to be a princess and married into a rich family. Also YO THAT WAS A GOOD BAGUETTE