no one is saying yeonwoo is a sweet cinnamon roll who could do nothing wrong, you can get off your moral high horse. yeonwoo is definitely a fucking creep, kissing someone while they're unconscious is a predatory behaviour. yeonwoo is in the wrong for that, make no mistake. however, taehwan is also a vey sadistic piece of shit who doesn't know what boundaries mean. two wrongs don't make a right, you know? both of them are terrible people.
people in the comments mentioning taehwan's faults more often doesn't negate the fact that yeonwoo has done a horrible thing as well.
I think the reason I personally am more lenient in Yeonwu's case is that I think it shows how bad repressing your sexuality can really affect a person and skew their inhibition and judgment, not that it was right, but I get how desperation for affection can make someone act a stupid fool. As for Taehwan, I dunno man, whatever trauma he might have gone through, it's not going to cut it in excusing his coercive ass.
Not y'all acting like yeonwu is the sweetest uwu baby when the weirdo kisses people while they're sleeping like who does that?? I mean if i was taehwan i would be pissed too you don't just go around kissing people if they are unconscious... And i get that all this trash talking about him is coming from him being a homophobe but i bet y'all would switch up as soon as we find out why he's being like that and again I'm not excusing his behaviour but it's really annoying to see people act like one is better than the other when they both have their own trauma and shit to deal with