And yet again, yaoi normalizes rape :) That was 100% rape. If the person says no, and he did and he meant it, you have to stop. Maybe the guy forgives him in the end and doesn't feel mad and thats okay because he doesn't have to be offended by it, but do not misunderstand. That WAS rape. Why its wrong is that the manga makes it look like its okay if you apologize for "losing control" and dismisses responsibility from the rapist. You do not have to forgive them just because they think you're so "cute and amazing that they couldn't hold back". It was his responsibility to stop and if he doesn't he is a rapist. Plain and simple. There is no excuse. Overall though, I did find the manga sexy until the rape at the end and can dismiss it because the uke was not upset. I just hope that everyone can distinguish that what happened was wrong and that if somebody tries to say its not their fault because they just couldn't hold back, it IS their fault and you are not to blame.
And yet again, yaoi normalizes rape :) That was 100% rape. If the person says no, and he did and he meant it, you have to stop. Maybe the guy forgives him in the end and doesn't feel mad and thats okay because he doesn't have to be offended by it, but do not misunderstand. That WAS rape. Why its wrong is that the manga makes it look like its okay if you apologize for "losing control" and dismisses responsibility from the rapist. You do not have to forgive them just because they think you're so "cute and amazing that they couldn't hold back". It was his responsibility to stop and if he doesn't he is a rapist. Plain and simple. There is no excuse. Overall though, I did find the manga sexy until the rape at the end and can dismiss it because the uke was not upset. I just hope that everyone can distinguish that what happened was wrong and that if somebody tries to say its not their fault because they just couldn't hold back, it IS their fault and you are not to blame.