So I do know a one-shot where the seme keeps picking fights with the uke with the condition that the loser must bottom. But idk if you'd like this one.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/yoru_mo_hi_mo_akenai/
Sadly, it's very short and I do not see a continuation of it, but there are separate stories for the other pairings in this one.
They don't have sex after but there's a scene where the couple fights physically, which helps them make up with each other
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/rift_conro/
Like they start seriously fighting each other like puching and hairpulling and shit like that than they end up having sex because they get too passionate. and I don't want it to be one sided fighting they both have to be into kicking the others ass.