Why do they always hide the child from the father its really annoying honestly

Jisoo's hoe April 21, 2021 1:46 am

Why do they always hide the child from the father its really annoying honestly

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    Akira April 21, 2021 2:54 am

    cuz the father is creepy af? and a douche bag lol. he pretended he didnt know she was pregnant while she suffered from anxiety

    Akira April 21, 2021 2:56 am

    cuz the father is creepy af? and a douche bag lol. he pretended he didnt know she was pregnant while she suffered from anxiety. but thats just how i felt

    annananananana April 22, 2021 4:48 pm
    cuz the father is creepy af? and a douche bag lol. he pretended he didnt know she was pregnant while she suffered from anxiety. but thats just how i felt Akira

    Maybe the father was considerate of her because he's the emperor ya know. Maybe a lot of dangers will happen to her( and thd babies) once found out that she's the mother of the children.

    (Delete) April 22, 2021 8:31 pm

    Because the fathers word is the law, if he says you and your children should be buried alive because you looked at him wrong. Everybody else would agree or at least shout their mouths. Nothing is fear here, she just has to protect herself and her children and she found him untrustworthy, and by his action I can see that he kidnapped the children just bait her.

    caramel April 22, 2021 8:37 pm
    Because the fathers word is the law, if he says you and your children should be buried alive because you looked at him wrong. Everybody else would agree or at least shout their mouths. Nothing is fear here, she... (Delete)

    he is the emperor tho, I think he's trying to protect elan in his own way since he know he has a lot of enwmies. cause if he wasn't instead of saying that elan was a fugitive he would've just directly said she was the empress so anyone who sees her report to him or something. plus he did kidnap the kids but as we can see alverre wasn't a good guy and he already has a hunch abput the elan and the kids, the kids will be safer with the emperor that alvere

    (Delete) April 22, 2021 8:54 pm
    he is the emperor tho, I think he's trying to protect elan in his own way since he know he has a lot of enwmies. cause if he wasn't instead of saying that elan was a fugitive he would've just directly said she ... caramel

    I'm just saying, morally he is wrong.

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 22, 2021 9:29 pm

    Cause they’re her children, not his. And I for one would not let my (nonexistent)children near a man who is trying to stalk me and get me to be with him all because of a one night stand. You have to realise that they weren’t in a relationship all they did was have sex and she became pregnant and after that it’s her choice of what to do with her children and she decided that she didn’t want them near a man who is literally the emperor and who literally put a spell on her to see her in her dreams it’s fucking creepy.

    Hanabi_04 April 22, 2021 9:45 pm
    Cause they’re her children, not his. And I for one would not let my (nonexistent)children near a man who is trying to stalk me and get me to be with him all because of a one night stand. You have to realise t... ( ´ ▽ ` )

    dang everyone hating the emperor, analysing the story . the emperor knew she is pregnant with his child , dont you remember what the doctor said. and for some reason the creepy one is the knight. when she is worrying over her children he is still insisting his proposal , when he cant do nothing. the kid are the children of the emperor , beside the emperor and those man that was called his shadows and are not that bad. they just suffered a lot.

    Seraphine April 22, 2021 9:50 pm

    It’s explained in the chapter where a girl come to the emperor and said that she was that girl he sleep with. At that moment MC asked him what he will do if someone came and said that she has his child, the emperor answered in a way that made MC misunderstanding, in fact, MC thought that the emperor will harm her children if he found out.

    Hanabi_04 April 22, 2021 9:57 pm
    It’s explained in the chapter where a girl come to the emperor and said that she was that girl he sleep with. At that moment MC asked him what he will do if someone came and said that she has his child, the e... Seraphine

    thats right but the emperor knew she is preggy , the doctor she went said that of something happen to her , he will be in danger .. or something like that.

    the emperor will have a hard time expressing himself since he had a bad childhood. i kinda saw a spoiler saying thatthe emperor was locked down along with those guys known as shadows.

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 22, 2021 10:25 pm
    It’s explained in the chapter where a girl come to the emperor and said that she was that girl he sleep with. At that moment MC asked him what he will do if someone came and said that she has his child, the e... Seraphine

    Okok I know that the emperor knew of her pregnancy but who cares? Put yourself in the shoes of a young pregnant woman who didn’t want or expect this but decides to keep the baby anyway and keep it a secret, imagine someone found out your secret but didn’t tell you and just kept meeting you in your dreams without you knowing that it’s not a dream, imagine the anxiety. This man can kill you at a moment’s notice and you’ve been keeping a secret from him, plus he’s well known to be violent, what do you do? You leave, you want what’s best for your child and what’s best for your child is not being around some crazed emperor. And here’s a note for you: trauma isn’t an excuse to track down someone who you had sex with one time and kidnap her children. Also your point with the knight: did I ever bring him up? No. Do I think he should keep proposing to her when she has clearly said no? No I don’t think he should. You’re allowed to want the mc and the emperor to get together that’s fine but you shouldn’t ignore what he’s done, if he did any of that to you I can promise you that you’d be absolutely terrified. You’ve put a rose coloured filter over all of this when in reality the emperor is a man who has threatened, stalked and kidnapped her children, he is also a man fully capable of killing whoever he wants. I like this don’t get me wrong, I think that this is entertaining and a decent read but still I think that we shouldn’t keep romanticising behaviour like this.

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 22, 2021 10:26 pm
    Okok I know that the emperor knew of her pregnancy but who cares? Put yourself in the shoes of a young pregnant woman who didn’t want or expect this but decides to keep the baby anyway and keep it a secret, i... ( ´ ▽ ` )

    That was really long, sorry if I annoyed you in anyway it’s just that I don’t want people thinking that this is ok. I want y’all to be in healthy relationships in the future and I don’t want this to be your standard.

    Quartiii April 22, 2021 10:45 pm
    Cause they’re her children, not his. And I for one would not let my (nonexistent)children near a man who is trying to stalk me and get me to be with him all because of a one night stand. You have to realise t... ( ´ ▽ ` )

    No the childrens are theirs if there is a child there is a mom and dad you cant Just say it yours or something okey its creepy that he is going her Dreams or whatever but its his style of communication Just because he cant communicate doesnt mean you can take his childrens and run away if it was dad who take the childrens and run away from mom its become how can you take the child from Mother but when its dad of course she is right

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 22, 2021 11:15 pm
    No the childrens are theirs if there is a child there is a mom and dad you cant Just say it yours or something okey its creepy that he is going her Dreams or whatever but its his style of communication Just bec... Quartiii

    I get what you’re saying but they never talked about raising the children together, she’s allowed to be a single mother, just cause a man got her pregnant doesn’t mean that same man has to help raise whatever child she gives birth to. Not to mention that the children weren’t even born when she ran away, at that point it’s her choice to do whatever she wants cause she thought that he didn’t know she was pregnant. Maybe if they were in a relationship and the emperor was a decent man I’d think otherwise but they’re not, I don’t think y’all understand that they’re not in a relationship she is single completely and utterly single and has the right to do whatever she wants with her children as a single parent. Just cause the father of her children is alive doesn’t mean that she has to be with him and raise their children together. If you got pregnant from a one night stand you don’t have to go back to that man and become a family, it’s ridiculous to think otherwise. Seriously people SHE IS A SINGLE WOMAN SHE DOESNT HAVE TO RAISE HER CHILDREN WITH THE MAN WHO GOT HER PREGNANT.

    Akira April 22, 2021 11:27 pm
    I get what you’re saying but they never talked about raising the children together, she’s allowed to be a single mother, just cause a man got her pregnant doesn’t mean that same man has to help raise what... ( ´ ▽ ` )

    i agree. like okay the dad is there and maybe he does have communication problems but so? like if he has communication problems thats his fault and she isnt obligated to accommodate for his ass. and she is totally justified to run away to protect herself and her children from what she thinks is coming to harm her and her children. Obviously this is fiction but i really hope people dont apply such a romanticized image to real life situations

    caramel April 22, 2021 11:35 pm
    I get what you’re saying but they never talked about raising the children together, she’s allowed to be a single mother, just cause a man got her pregnant doesn’t mean that same man has to help raise what... ( ´ ▽ ` )

    I agree that she doesn't have to be with the man but it also doesn't mean that ahe can just take away the mans right to be a parent. being a spouse and a parents are 2 different responsibilities. my problem with elan was she just decided everything on her own she didn't even try to talk to him or to actually know the truth about rumors because ypu know rumors can be exagerrating. If they had just talked and the emperor said he doesn'twant to be a dad then is when elan left and told him to fuck off and not show up in her dreams cause unlike him she wants to be a parent. but it didn't happen and now they made their lives complicated. my take on this in reality is that if I get pregnant even if its just a one night stand and I know the dad, I'll inform him and if he doesn't to be part of the kids life fine, at least when kid grows up I don't have to make up stories or something. but thats just me

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 22, 2021 11:37 pm
    i agree. like okay the dad is there and maybe he does have communication problems but so? like if he has communication problems thats his fault and she isnt obligated to accommodate for his ass. and she is tota... Akira

    Yes thank you!! People have been looking up to what the emperors been doing as if it’s cute or romantic but it’s not. He’s an obsessive stalker no matter how you look at it. I’m fine with people liking him cause I have to admit I’ve liked some really shitty characters before, even worse than the emperor, but you can’t just ignore everything else. I remember watching something and it basically said that “there’s a difference between enjoying a flawed movie and calling a movie flawless” even tho that video was about movies I still think it stands here.

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 22, 2021 11:46 pm
    I agree that she doesn't have to be with the man but it also doesn't mean that ahe can just take away the mans right to be a parent. being a spouse and a parents are 2 different responsibilities. my problem wit... caramel

    Yes but the emperor isn’t just any man you’d meet, he’s a man in a high position of power who is known to be violent and cruel. Who cares if it’s only rumours? Just because it’s all rumours doesn’t mean it’s not true and if I was currently pregnant and wanted to keep the child I wouldn’t want to find out if those rumours were true or not, cause if they were I would be endangering not only myself but my child.

    caramel April 22, 2021 11:57 pm
    Yes but the emperor isn’t just any man you’d meet, he’s a man in a high position of power who is known to be violent and cruel. Who cares if it’s only rumours? Just because it’s all rumours doesn’t ... ( ´ ▽ ` )

    I mean of course I wouldn't talk to him about the rumors directly cause what if he lies and says no its not true blah blah blah now that's a bad decision, I would probably do some asking or something. and if its true well bye I'm not going back. but i'd probably leave some sort of message or something so he wouldn't keep chasing me. but thats just me tho. I just thought about this but elan must have debated whether she's gonna stay in the empire or not, and if she left for another place that isn't within the emperors power would the emperor declare war or something. these stories are getting to my head I need to take a break lol

    ( ´ ▽ ` ) April 23, 2021 12:10 am
    I mean of course I wouldn't talk to him about the rumors directly cause what if he lies and says no its not true blah blah blah now that's a bad decision, I would probably do some asking or something. and if it... caramel

    You’re way easier to talk to than the other person who was annoyed at me so if you ever want someone to argue with I’ll be here. We both have similar opinions on the fact that she is allowed to leave with her children it’s just that the way we would go about it is different so it was refreshing. Arguing with internet people can be tiring so I hope you have a good rest.