If you really are a gay man reading BL yet STILL manages to be that fetishist and toxic I am even more so worried for you. This is already a huge problem with women but as a gay man you should know better and be willing to educate yourself and not pertain in toxic patterns and behavior, yet you are indulging into it. Being gay doesn't give you a non-bigot free pass. If anything it makes you even more bigoted for doing so by being someone who should be the first to realize the issue.
"thinking he is a lovely uke" Your words, not mine. So, "i don't say gallahan is gay or he is an uke" --ehhh-- Try that again?
Simply put you don’t want to be judged for fetishizing? Then why do you fetishize in the first place?
@Lex You can't educate someone who doesn’t want to be educated
Periodt.
Gallahan neither is gay nor an 'uke' so you saying he is would be weirder. But you did say that you can imagine him as a 'lovely uke' just because he has feminine features which is basically fetishizing. Both of us being on mangago doesn’t change that
Who cares? It's a fictional character... what is your endgoal in making the argument that OP is sexualizing a character? Because the only point you'd be making by pointing that out is that he's sexualizing a character. Does this EXTEND into something? Are you trying to argue that he's a piece of shit FOR sexualizing a character? Doubt many agree with that... even entertaining that he is, no one other than types like you give a shit.
Op isn’t only sexualizing a character but also fetishizing a gay people . I am not really trying to argue with anyone here. Just replying to op since they talked about having a mature conversation which I clearly get you aren’t. I mean I get it you think it’s ok to fetishize but don't think that there isn’t a majority of people who are disgusted by it.
And ok I care about calling out fetishizers.Any fetishizer is a piece of shit and so are the people who defend them. What are you trying to go with saying that?
Where*
"Simply put, you don't want to be judged for fetishizing"
No one cares WHO you judge you crazy bitch. Your opinion is irrelevant and the vast minority. Even entertaining that he IS fetishizing the character, it's a fictional character.
I repeat sweetie, NO ONE CARES ABOUT THE POINT YOU'RE TRYING TO MAKE BECAUSE IT'S STUPID AF AND ALSO, WHY WOULD WE CARE ABOUT YOUR MORALS ARGUMENT WHEN YOU'RE HARASSING SOMEONE IN A COMMENTS SECTION? FROM A THIRD PARTY VIEW, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO LOOKS RUDE, NOT THE GUY WHO LEFT A RANDOM COMMENT ONLY TO BE ACCOSTED BY YOU! I DONT WANT A MORALS LESSON FROM A HYPOCRITE.
"It's just fiction" is the dumbest argument one could make, first of all. Not to mention that if you'd actually read what we wrote, you wouldn't be making this comment in the first place. I've clearly explained above what the issue was and that sexualizing the character was not the core of the problem here but a symptom. And that the real problem that we have with this is fetishizing gay people. And yes, fun fact, you can be queer and STILL be a fetishist yourself. Again, it's not a free pass to no-bigotry-land.
"Are you trying to argue that he's a piece of shit FOR sexualizing a character" Wow.. Now you're just putting words into someone's mouth. That's a whole new level of nonsense. Nobody said that he's a piece of sh*t. What we did say tho is that this is fetishization and it's a huge problem. Does it make him a piece of sh*t? No. What it does make him tho, is a bigot.
"no one other than types like you give a shit. " And yet here you are... Clearly giving a shit since your comment didn't write itself all alone.
That you're a cunt, was i not clear enough? Lol!
You don’t care if I judge anyone or not but here you are writing long ass paragraphs on full caps. Calm down and read everything you wrote again. You sound like a clown
No one cares, you're clearly just one of the cringy offended types. Bye cunt.
You just proved that you are a certified clown lol. Not that your previous statements didn’t prove that enough
Reading comprehension sweetie, i said no one cares about your opinion on tgem, not that seeing you being a cunt isn't annoying and cringy...
Yet you still keep replying. It's very clear you care. Otherwise you wouldn’t be calling us slurs or what not as your omly defence
Bruh tell me this, if no one cares then why does cringey idiots like you keep replying to me? Hypocrisy much?
Now who was insulting who again......? Literally no one is harassing anyone here but you. You're the one coming in all caps and offensive words. Not us. All we did was make an argument and explaining our point of view. Now how you fail to see this is beyond me. I also don't see what hypocrites you see here 'cause I see none.
Oh no! An easily offended cunt hates me! Bitch, even if I'd kissed your ass at some point, you'd still be up on your pedestal looking down on everyone you don't agree with.
Bruh i read too much yaoi so when i see gallahan i immediately fall for him and thinking he is a lovely uke