i need comfort fellow BL lovers...

kuroe April 17, 2021 7:29 pm

someone dm'd me on an acc where I post cute fictional gay ships asking, my gender and told me I was "disgusting" and it was "weird af" that a female likes Bl or as they said Yaoi...I can't get it out of my head now...I blocked them and they came back with another acc and now I can't even read a cute bl without questioning if liking it is wrong...ik it's not like cmon but damn anxiety and depression be whispering in my ear.

Responses
    Adepressedsimp April 17, 2021 7:37 pm

    ignore that idiotic piece of garbage. Just enjoy your time doing whatever you want, you shouldn’t care about the opinion of a stranger who spends their time harassing other people about what they gotta like or not.

    Ginger Walker April 17, 2021 8:16 pm

    I used to worry about that.. then, after being made fun of and called a lot of mean names..
    I got to a point I just thought...why should I fucking care what people thought about me... Fuck it! I like BL! I like a lot of weird shamefull things, if I live in prole of that, I'm never going to have any rest...
    Now I read all of my BL in public...I don't hide at all. Its freeying...

    rvhmaa April 17, 2021 8:35 pm

    it’s wrong if you fetishise mlm but if you read it for the plot and u also read yuri and straight stuff too not only singling out bl then there’s nothing wrong with it UNLESS ur fetishising us

    celtne April 17, 2021 9:25 pm

    just as long as you don't outside and be like "omg youre a guy? i ship you with another dude uwu" then youre good

    Eden April 17, 2021 11:03 pm

    it's stupid that they'd do that on an illegal website harassing you on multiple accounts because of what you read, just ignore them who gives a shit about that strangers opinion

    Casca April 18, 2021 7:46 am

    Dont fetishize it meaning don’t JUST read BL; don’t apply what u see in BL to real life people, don’t do inappropriate stuff when reading it, don’t make it your whole personality. Honestly just treat BL like any other genre you read Bc in the end it’s a literal romance genre there’s Nthn wrong as long as u don’t fetishize it