Fellow human, can I just say you said a huge thing of what I've been thinking about.
Lemme give you a hug. ＼(*´▽｀)／
After seeing sooo many comments about how unrealistic the misscommunication in this is. But really they never conveyed there true feelings to each other. So its pretty realistic. (At least to me)
And as you said they weren't really taught how to react in this situation. Since park min gyeom was forced to be his fathers guinie pig and was not treated with perrental love, and Sam (huehuehue I cant remember his full name) was asleep till he was 17 (I think) and was quite unsocial in school. I guess in the end its lack of social skills and anxiety that is making it so hard for them to express themselves.
as the audience we get a good look what goes through both parties mind and some people in the audience tend to forget that even if we know, the other characters do not.
He he sorry about the long rant... Sometimes I get carried away.
haha it's okay :) I'm glad you agree! Honestly when sam was like "I don't want to date you right now" I was pissed too, but its not easy to go from friends to lovers, especially with his only friend that's been treating him real shitty lately. Plus like you said he doesn't know how to properly express his feelings. Min was quick to jump to the conclusion that Sam was rejecting him because no one loves him except his sis and he rejects her sisterly love constantly (I forget why it was a good reason from his pov).
Anyway, I don't mind the long rant! Nice to know someone else is getting it!
I know people are pissed this is SOOOO much bull but honestly (even though this is fiction) the feels portrayed are real. Feelings aren't always so clear, people are awkward and their minds clouded in situations like this (especially with 'pet' boy over there), and these two are SUPER IDIOTS -not like it's their fault I blame father Mcdick and vampirism- who don't understand that people can love them for who and what they are, they need time, the shitty waiter needs a slap. Seriously this story is just one HUGE miscommunication, but that's how people work, we asume for the worst when we're worried or don't understand things...