Wait so the father was in a relationship with that other Lycan clan leader before?

Yup

Yes they were together until the dude started kill unnecessarily and Khakia didn’t like that and so he broke up with him and walked away. Ever since then that dude has been taking it out on other Lycans and making them promise to leave his side. That’s why Ino said he knows he looks like the leader and he knows or feels that’s what drove the leader mad because he was in love with Khakia

Damnnn I need to reread everything more closely