Um, Correct Me If I’m Wrong

Isn’t BDSM play supposed to be planned in advanced a/ opposed to spontaneous? Like, actually talk through what both of you are willing + able to do and not before getting down and dirty? Also, shouldn’t two people trust each other a lot before doing that type of shit, and generally not want to inflict harm on the other. Also, isn’t leaving someone bound, gagged, and blind unsupervised a huge no? Ntm, that aftercare, especially for the type of shit Yeonwoo went through, is essential for the sub/masochist otherwise it could cause psychological harm and...idt Taehwan is capable of that. I’m glad the chapter had the warning, but this really makes me not like Taehwan cause he can’t even do the decent thing of engaging in safe sex with YW and is passing it off as YW receiving a favor, when Taehwan is just getting his sadistic rocks off while YW goes through all the strain. YW maybe a maso but that doesn’t mean he should suffer a careless partner who mainly looks after himself.