
Most yaoi is more smutty than your average boyxgirl romance and I think a good amount of it is written kind of as porn for girls so asking about crazy sex is kind of the point...
and a lot of times it's just easier to find a yaoi manga based on specific sex scenes or people, because honestly, a lot of the plots are pretty similar.

The requests on front page can't represent most Yaoi readers. So you can't shallowly judge everyone like that.
There're various kinds of BL for various tastes of readers. You just have to know how to find the ones suit your taste..
BTW For genuine Yaoi Lover, YAOI & GAY are different.
I read various genres of manga and become Yaoi Lover because I found that there're many romance in BL are deeper & more touched. The sex scenes are more passionate with love, not only lust like most Hentai which's wrote from man's POV to serve men, they most know nothing about woman.
The latest popular & beautiful BL story right now, there's nothing you mention above. How about trying some.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/hidamari_ga_kikoeru/
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/19_days/

this: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kanpai_dj_unapai/ kind of story is nice and "normal", right?
nyahaha

oh, there's mature answer here..
"there're many romance in BL are deeper & more touched. The sex scenes are more passionate with love, not only lust like most Hentai which's wrote from man's POV to serve men"
that's true, I read shoujo manga at first, but I don't know why, I can feel something is wrong with myself, so I read other genre (Not yaoi) but it still feel strange, like there's hole in my heart.. no matter how many manga with different genre I read everyday, they can't make this big hole in my heart closened.
and someday, I watch Jonjou Romantica and start read yaoi manga, my heart hurt all the time, I am hungry, I want to read more and I can actually saying something like, "Eehh, I can feel it and I can understand the story and their character."
of course sex scene is important too, but I mostly prefer good plot and good story that just good roleplay, eh, good smexy.

Hentai is to straight porn as to yaoi is to gay porn. There's a wide spectrum of fujoshi around the world. From mild to hardcore. It's the same for otakus it's just that those people hang out n different places than you do. I sometimes hang around in hentai sites and there's as much otakus there to fujoshis here.
Normal romance=shounen-ai. And everyone already know how to search for them. There's a difference in terms.
Also:tentacles? No i don't see people asking for that. I'd gladly give them several titles. I read both het and gay tentacles.

I can honestly say I've never read a tentacle Yaoi porn, same as I've not watched/read tentacle hentai. Because it's not my thing, with yaoi you choose what you read, I admit rape can be a somewhat common theme but there are a lot of love/romance yaoi stories as well. It helps to read the descriptions, the tags and reviews and find what you're looking for.
I don't read yaoi manga. So I hope you guys can explain to me something.
Most of the time I see people ask about manga with tentacle/uke pee/someone getting raped /forced to sex and stuff. Sometimes its about small/bald/beard guy mostly physical appearancees.I hardly see people ask about normal romance yaoi based on story. Does this mean you guys fill your needs of gay porn with this yaoi stuff?
I read boy-girl romance and I can't be choosy about how they have sex or what they do during sex even in most ecchi/adult/mature manga. That is off course unless I read hentai
Is it like we, boy-girl romance people search about school life/slice of life/seinen manga same way as you guys search for tentacle/rape and stuff?
No bad intention but curious :D