Sorry for any typos I was just to lazy to go through this again. I didn’t mean to sound rude I’m just frustrated that these people think being lgbt is easy and forget the fact that we lgbt are humans and we go through shit. Not just homophobia, transphobia, discrimination, etc. We also go through difficult situations that lead to mental illnesses, depression and disabilities just like straight people do.
EXACTLY. This is what I was thinking. I’m also wlw, but it makes me uncomfortable when some of the comments are just girls fetishizing mlm and victim blaming. These are real issues. It may just be a manhwa to some people, but these are real issues that happen in real life. When they act like just because it’s a fictional character makes it okay to say these things it disgusts me. Yes, they may not be real here, but there are real people who go through these issues. Anyone can read bl, but if you’re reading it just for the smut then I don’t think you have a right to say anything about what they are going through.
i couldn't have said it better
mans has trauma and these people b acting like that stupid mlm fetishizer girl with the ponytail in the manhwa
its disgusting
Preach. Mental illness is a huge deal, nothing small or mere.
Are we reading the same thing or do people just like to be ignorant? Jihyun literally said he has a mental illness it’s not something to take easily. How can you hate Jihyun when you don’t even know his full story? But of course it’s always the top privilege and blame the bottom. Don’t expect all BL bottoms to act like “UwU b-Baka” and the top to be a badass or some shit. That’s not how it works, internet not just “I love you so that means don’t victimize yourself. Okay I won’t, let’s live together forever and love each other like there is no tomorrow and forget about the fact that every person and relationship is different and that homophobia, transphobia, etc. exist and the struggles a gay man goes through”. Not everything is just unicorns and rainbows. I’m all about anyone can reads BL no matter wat gender but as a girl myself I can say most of these comments are 13-16 year old girls who just read BL for their enjoyment. If your just hear for sex you might as well go watch gay porn. It’s disgusting how you are blaming a VICTIM/SURVIVOR. If it were a real person you would have made that person feel like shit for the way they act. Ya’ll act like depression, disabilities, and mental illness are nothing to worry about and forget the fact that gay people also go through this? Idc if you think I’m exaggerating but I’m tired of these horny uneducated children that think their opinion is right and valid and want to certify themselves as psychologists and know what being gay is when most of the times it’s straight girls doing all of this weird shit. I may not be MLM but I’m WLW and even if it’s different genders I go through the same shit a gay man goes through so as a WLW I would be offended. Stop talking shit and learn to respect people and MLM. Stop trying to blame a victim/survivor for what they went through or for how they act. If you haven’t been through any of these situations you have no right speak and tell people that went through this how to act or feel. Srsly who ever told you your opinion was valid enough to blame a victim/survivor. Ya’ll are so immature and delusional