Falling in love, being head over heels then being disappointed, and maybe even hated. Wouldn't like that :)
All three
The idea of being in a relationship that is stable, where both of you give to each other and not just take, sounds great. I long to have someone that makes me feel all fuzzy and warm
nope. I'm not going to be into that shit(love), if I have a choice. no no no
Being in love is nice but after my last relationship I realized that you shouldn’t really give yourself to another person, like you can’t depend on someone, you should be enough for yourself. You shouldn’t find “your other half” YOU should be your OWN “other half”
But loving someone and having someone loving you is a really nice feeling
I see what you mean, but I THINK we all just long for a relationship where you BOTH sides of the party give to each other, show each other affection and love, and not just take from each other.
Fall in love is okay..I can just pretend how I normally do
But I don't want to be loved, it's scary
Yesss, both sides should give to each other. But like you shouldn’t depend on the person, and the person shouldn’t depend on you.
Like both people need to be their own person (that sounds weird but ok). Because it’s really common to start depending on a person, and like only being happy because of them. Don’t make someone your happiness you get what I mean?
I may sound a little cold but that’s just what I learned HDHHhdahshs
Love for me is inexplicable, but in short, I fear it.
I read so many romance mangas/manhwas and I’d feel happy, but to see myself being with someone scares me because we all lack the innocence, sincerity, etc. It really needs LOTS of trust. And at this point, when I get in those sort of relationships, I’d wonder when it’s gonna end instead of sustaining it. For me, just reading the manga is enough because although they depict that their is such thing as true love or love will save you and blah blah blah... reality will hit you and there are those who will either make you fall in love with them all because of an ulterior motive to gain something. Love is great when it’s mutual and pure. Also when it’s BOTH of you will benefit from it.
LMAO I ENDED UP TYPING THIS LONG! SORRY! I MUST BE BLABBING NONSENSE! ╥﹏╥
Exactly!! What I mean is being happy with the person, but not totally relying on them for everything!
No, no, no, I see what you mean! I'm also scared of love, but the thought that SOMEONE could love me for me warms my heart. Then again, I just really long for those relationships in mangas/manhwas I read. T^T
It is scary, knowing that someone, someday, will know who you really are. (maybe I should re-think this who "love" thing
I don't think anyone would like that But if they accept you for you then that's another story.
what I said was something that just came onto my mind, but since you are replying heres something. "Babe Im I your world?" says the bf. The gf then takes him on a trip, outer space, and shows him her worlds. "Friends" "Family" "Dance" Etc and there was a world called "Love" and she pointed and told him, "I have many worlds and look thats our world." What that told me was life will happend and you wont just revolve, think, or just be obsessed with this one person (its fine to be head over heels) when theres so much things going on. Also what the man did was give her a kiss after she told him that.
I've absolutely wished that i could fall in love before, but I'm Aromantic so I honestly don't really know lol
It's just whenever someone is accepting or loving me it scares me like why! why do you have to accept me, why you people love me, and now what should I do? what if I can't return your affection or love...this type of things make me scare
so i just feel uneasy when they say they like me, even if it's my family :(
Ahh I have no comment on falling in love but thanks for the feedback and advice xD I can agree with all of you in some way tho lol
I feel the same way, as much as I'd like to believe that I wouldn't be scared when the day comes. I feel like I would be able to give back the feeling they gave me. And I think it's perfectly normal to be scared
So this might be a weird or a question you hear frequently but ... Do you think love is really that great or that having someone give their all you the best thing in the world or are you scared xD just curious this is my first time asking a question