I feel like that for someone too but he is 35 years older than me when though he is still not married I know that it's creepy but I just can't forget him either
I know its not easy to forget your first love... and its ok.... you couldn't tell him maybe because you were scared to confront your feelings it happens but its all in the past now... you will forget him as time passes.... you will find someone new and that person will capture your heart wholly and all this will just be good old memories..... just be patient and seek a new person ♡ Dont lose hope! Everyone will meet their special someone.... someone who maynot be your first but will eventually be your last!! I hope you find happiness soon!! Virtual Hugs from me
uhm idk bro i mean i have been like this for 2 years and rly i dont think its weird and u liked him before he got married so yh and i guess u didnt have courage to do so i mean its hard lol i am sorry that this wont help
Looks like we r the weirdest one (￣∇￣")
i liked the same dude for 3 years straight and i'm still not completely over it yet but if you just don't see them for a while or talk to them, it helps your feelings go away. for me i guess you could say i was sorta just obsessed with the idea of him because he was a very good guy to me and was there for me through a lot. i may have just mistaken my feelings since my heart doesn't beat fast when i see and hear of him anymore or i did really like him but it turned into something else. it really does just take time, especially how your unrequited is now married, i think it would be easier for you to forget
Loving someone from distance not even dare to share it with anyone its so painful but your word heal all of my secret wounds.... thank u so much dear.... take love and virtual hug
No no its absolutely fine... I could never ever dare to say anything abt my unrequited love... as long as no one find it weird I'm absolutely fine with that.... thank u...
Uhhh...nope I never experienced this. But according to statistics, you will probably not think of him once you find a better guy that suits your tastes and it will become a mere childhood crush. Don't purposefully try to not think about him, you will only think of him much more. If you think about him, think about why you liked him in the first place, and try to analyze yourself from a third person point of view. Maybe you'll discover more about yourself and your preferences.
I don't suggest you tell him your feelings now considering that he's married. It gives off the suggestion that you want to start something and will leave a bad impression. It's ok to have lingering feelings about a married person but keep it to yourself. If you attempt to start a new relationship without cutting off these lingering feelings of him, be sure to notify your partner in advance. Good luck~
Yeah I should forget him... It doesn't sound healthy afterall... thanks a lot....
step 1: stop talking to him in ur imagination cause u'll loose it.
its normal to have a crush but i believe that due to limited real life love experiences (as u suggested) u r creating a person in ur head; all of us have done it one way or another BUT u need to switch to reality. the person u r imagining is not ur tutor but the perfect version of ur tutor (its not about the person but the feeling that this person creates). i believe that socialization will help in order to find a person who will be there for u so instead of creating the perfect scenarios, u will be living them! so u should give love a try in general..mby that is what urself is trying to tell you.
also something that i always suggest is to spend time with family (+friends). if u improve other aspects of ur life then the need for that person may decline. we often switch to "imagination" when we try to avoid something; to run from our lives in some way. so by improving ur life i believe that this state will pass.
regarding ur tutor, i dont think that there is a reason to talk to him since he is a part of ur past (although talking to him now might help in order to leave the person behind).
and yes i have experienced unrequited love but not in the same way since i was with the person but not emotionally only physically.
All of you sound so mature... Look at me at age of 23 still acting like a child....
Btw Thanks a lot....
How accurately you pointed out my troubles... Like I mentioned abt it in my head I know its not good but sometimes i just can't.... I will try my best.... thank u so much
no problem, i believe in u! it seems to me that u know what you need to do so u just have to do it...and instead of imagining a person, try imagining ur life in the next years and make some plans. that will make u more confident! idk whats happenin in ur country with the corona and all but if u can, try going out a bit(๑•ㅂ•)و✧everything will turn out well, dont worryヾ(☆▽☆)
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When I was 16 i fall in love with my academy tutor... he was 20 and was uni student... while i was in middle school... IDKW but I did never forget him.. I tried a lot... I did never share anything abt him to my friends... though i was young but I knew it from the begining that's not the time to fall for him... so i focused on my studies... but deep inside in my very own world I talk to him I fight with him and he cinvince me and again I fall for him.... weird right!!! But this is something make me happy... if i say for him I did never date any boy not even doing any virtual chatting would u believe me??? But trust me I'm not lying... He got married 2 years ago... Still I think about him... In my head I know I would never ever do any kindaa shitty things in reality to get him, for sure... I too know Its wrong to think about a married man??? But what should I do?? can u guys tell me in this life would i ever be able to forget him.. Why am i so weird??? Why in the first place I couldn't say him that I love him??? Why its hard? Why??