Same here. But for me more because it's disgusting as in ew bacteria ew...I tolerate kissing in 2d but irl nope i'm good haha
i had an ex who absolutely hated spit or like tongue. like excessively hated it. For real she would freak out if our tongues slightly touched and would stop to wipe her mouth every time no matter the situation and i was like um... kinda hurted babe. legit if i tried to like give a hickey she'd be like ew don't use your tongue... (⊙…⊙ ). fr she once gagged when we were making out and i was like hey guess what... sexual desire... poof gone right now ヾ(☆▽☆)
lol yeah things like this should be explained first before going into a relationship cos it could be a deal breaker.
That's something she should have said while dating. "Heads up I got a spit phobia". She wasted both you guys time and energy. That's not something she can get over easily. I know for a fact I cant stand the smell of smoke or kiss a smoker. So i tell people first "i dont date smokers" not wasting anyone's time.
It's the same for me. Kissing is one thing but a spit glob is another ballgame. I cant handle a big spit to the mouth. Its germs. I wont share toothbrushes or face masks for this same reason.
There's a lot of kinks I can read. And I mean A LOT OF KINKS I can read. But something about spitting in someone's mouth that just shuts me down every time. It's like a banner flashing "warning, you've entered supreme freak nasty territory. Head back now"