i had an ex who absolutely hated spit or like tongue. like excessively hated it. For real she would freak out if our tongues slightly touched and would stop to wipe her mouth every time no matter the situation and i was like um... kinda hurted babe. legit if i tried to like give a hickey she'd be like ew don't use your tongue... (⊙…⊙ ). fr she once gagged when we were making out and i was like hey guess what... sexual desire... poof gone right now ヾ(☆▽☆)
That's something she should have said while dating. "Heads up I got a spit phobia". She wasted both you guys time and energy. That's not something she can get over easily. I know for a fact I cant stand the smell of smoke or kiss a smoker. So i tell people first "i dont date smokers" not wasting anyone's time.
There's a lot of kinks I can read. And I mean A LOT OF KINKS I can read. But something about spitting in someone's mouth that just shuts me down every time. It's like a banner flashing "warning, you've entered supreme freak nasty territory. Head back now"