and we get it. but like imagine watching your kid get hurt by someone else just because they're scared. you're okay with that? watching someone you love go through pain because the other person never went to therapy?
if so, then... idk what to say. because just because it's understandable doesn't make it okay.
Umm overall yes what he’s done is kinda rude but it’s still his choice it’s not “not okay”
In this scenario then you can be caution and communicate. Ask questions, deep explanations, give a reason why, try little things with a close friend. Face the problem wouldn't label his response okay nor not okay.
(Period after problem and continued I pressed post on accident and don't know how to edit, I'm sorry ) In all wouldn't label Jihyun's response okay nor not okay. He needs time, it's understandable, but self-awareness means nothing without critical thinking nor communication.
To the ppl that don’t get it it’s like imagine
If once you were in humongous debt to someone
And now you’re scared to take anything from anyone again because you don’t want to owe them anything
He’s like that but with affection