OVER THINKING And its finest

Yawhii April 6, 2021 5:38 pm

Idk but I'm so overthinking over just a small matters. Such as when my boyfriend leave my message on read, I feel like he doesn't want to talk anymore and I would think that he's busy texting another girl even though he keeps explaining that he's busy working so that he couldn't reply my message immediately , there's part of me that doesn't believe in him. When he asks my selfie, It's hard for me to send one to him cuz I would think that he would not find me pretty at all and perhaps he would leave me for that . Tonight, I cried silently just because he didn't say 'I love you ' to me after he said goodnight. When he treats me coldly or replied my message only about 1 or 2 words, I cry about it. Is this normal?

Responses
    SLAO April 6, 2021 5:41 pm

    Why don’t you just tell him all this. If he loves you he’ll try to understand you and make you feel more secure.

    um- April 6, 2021 5:45 pm

    i think you should do what's best for you. if you feel like there just isn't enough love in the relationship and he doesn't want to put in any work while talking to someone else, it might be time to movement..

    Maeve-chan April 6, 2021 5:49 pm

    Hey, this sounds really hard and I can understand how emotionally taxing this must be.
    I know it's not easy sharing our insecurities with others.
    I genuinely hope you are able to communicate this to your partner someday.
    Please take care. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    3liss3c April 6, 2021 5:49 pm

    I may not be an expert about love or experience but yes it's normal it was make us human. What I like to share to u instead is for u to talk to ur bf, I know we humans had intuition but don't conclude whitout proofs and misunderstanding always start with miscommunication. My biggest mistake with my Family is never speaking up that's why I tried to talk and listen when I had a relationship however I dont sacrificed my dignity just to keep the relationship. Goodluck and pray