If he is a prince

We already have a good subversive progressive Cinderella story:

I raised Cinderella Preciously.

And some stories where the FL does not end up with the fucking tsundere prince:

Beware Of The Villainess and The Lady's Butler.

But these stories are about very badass self-aware reincarnated female Protagonists from modern South Korea...

How about the Lady and The Beast? Oh wait!, she was in love with the king - the brother of her genocidal rapist - and ends up with his reincarnation... Drama

This Girl is a Little Wild but is unfortunately discontinued.

A feminist story where the non reincarnated or non isekaied heroines don't marry royalty/an imperal family:
KINGDOM OF THE QUEEN, Peerless Alchemist (The Male Waifu is a statemaster... Maybe he is equivalent to royals), Frau Faust, Taming a Shrew, My Lord the Wolf Queen (ML is a powerless prince who lost his royal status), Majo To Kiketsu No Kishi (Superwitch and ML's grandmother is a witch queen so...), Charlotte Has Five Disciples (ongoing), Contract Concubine (MC more dangerous than the emperor) and In Full Bloom Yon Jae Won.

Man, it is very hard to find a strong emancipated FL who is not from the modern real world and a not arrogant prick ML without any royal blood in his vein(￣∇￣")

Leslie from "The Monster Duchess and Contract Princess"! the most badass self-efficient female child protagonist with a raging spirit I ve ever seen.

Thanks for the reply. I’m reading all of them or have tried already.

I agree its hard to find those stories. Everytime I find one with FL & historical & maybe even isekai I try to read it but they all start to look same when you’ve read more.

I would really like stories where they would chooce some commoner or just ordinari Knight. I would love to see noble Lady too that. Too bad its almost always noble Man finding a peasant girl and being arrogant prick.

Speaking of commoner....

The Villainess Want to Marry a Commoner!!

Yes. I love that one. Its good feel good story