You spilled, literally rolled my eyes while reading this chapter
Damn so true .
Damn finally someone said it
"that's that on" your opinion. there. fixed it for you.
We’re obviously all sharing our opinion here, so keep your attitude to yourself.
lmao who are you mad at
i mean imo she just expressed that she's not sexually attracted to him anymore and that was it. i think the reason why ppl aren't as fired up over this is purely bc of historical context, like yknow how women have historically been defined by their vaginas?
She definitely demeaned and reduced him to his private parts. Let’s not sugar coat it. If all she did was say she’s not interested, we wouldn’t be having this conversation. Women trying to replicate the patriarchy benefits no one, and is equally as gross. The historical oppression of women does shape the way we view this situation, and that’s fine. But If you want to use the oppression olympics to justify a female character’s shallow behavior that’s on you. Its all equally terrible, and needs to be called out either way.
lmaooo all that and you're still wrong. she did nothing wrong. she communicated that she was no longer invested effectively. she didn't string him along, and she was more than courteous in NOT letting him know that he couldn't make her cum, which was entirely 100000% his own fault, not his penis' fault. just be quiet.
You’re blocked. Go be rude somewhere else.
Period.
first of all, let's leave "oppression olympics" in 2020 that word has way too much baggage. i'm just tryna say that the weight behind "i'm breaking up w you bc you aren't giving me sexually gratification" is different from "your vagina is loose so i'm leaving you." it's like the difference between calling a minority a slur vs calling a white person a cracker. or like how reverse racism does not exist. the same systemic oppression and structures don't sit that way when it concerns men. i just don't find the two comparable, so i don't think your analogy works here.
i totally see where you're coming from the perspective of no body shaming, and i agree with you on that. she definitely put her ex in a terrible position w that breakup. i'm not saying that women should seek to replicate the patriarchy or anything, just that i don't think your comparison is valid.
Lol, does it have baggage? I don’t see it that often so I wouldn’t know. Anyways, I don’t think we have the same understanding about what happened. She broke up with him because his penis was too small. She didn’t say “he’s not pleasing me sexually,” she said his dick was small, that’s it.
Saying “your penis is too small” is fundamentally the same as saying “your vagina is too loose,” which is why I used that analogy. I agree with you that a man demeaning a woman has more social impact than a woman demeaning a man, however that doesn’t change the principle of both being wrong. Just because a man can do more harm doesn’t mean that it is ok or less wrong if a woman does the same thing.
Breaking up with someone only because you don’t like the size private parts, is very shallow. It doesn’t matter if a woman is doing it or a man is doing it. We shouldn’t make it seem like that behavior is ok. That’s the point I was trying to make. Also disclaimer I don’t hate our FL ms girl over here, I’m just not a fan of her character so far.
jus wanna clarify, she broke up with him saying that she "wasn't attracted to him anymore" and only called his dick small after he rolled up on her later and wouldn't let her go
she's still shallow af but it's a little better ig ?
Yeah you’re right. I guess, I was only considering what her true thoughts were.
I swear to gawwd. If a male character in a webtoon were to say something like “I don’t want to date because your vagina is loose.” Y’all would have lit these comments tf up!!!! But in this case she’s “owning her sexuality”? Naw, she’s just shallow.
I understand having standards for pleasure but how are you going to break up with a whole human being just because of one body part?? You’re trash, and that’s that on that.