Something is bothering me while reading this manga (and i’ve read this since the release...

I didn’t realise it but do you mind giving me points or scenes when you think the story is getting sexist

I think they mean that since shion doesn’t wanna be a female, that he is sexist which is stupid asf

Yeah. That’s like saying someone trans is being sexist because they don’t want to be their assigned gender. If someone doesn’t feel as though their gender is who they are, of course they’re not gonna like it.

he was forced to he doesn't fell comfy being female that doesn't mean that its exist

really? i thought they meant more like how they treat women as sex objects, especially at the beginning

I think one part of the story is about mc realizing girl have problems to go through too, and also how sleeping around isn’t the best thing to do when he might be hurting others(tho there’s def a lot of smut that makes you forget about that for a bit lol) that’s legit the reason why he turned into a girl in the first place, because he probably unknowingly hurt a girl and she wanted revenge.

The only thing I can think of is when Shion went on to say that he wasn't a slut as a female but no mention of being one as a male. Other than that, I don't recall them saying anything sexist. They're just players and slept around.

I think what's bothersome with this manga regarding sexism is the way the main guys would treat their relationships with women, very much players, but it's as if the entire time they were in love with each other without realizing it because they just went along doing it with all the women, because of course they couldn't be gay even if they didn't seem to ever find a women they truly loved

You replied to the wrong one

I wouldn’t say “sex objects” I’d say more hook-ups/one night stand maybe? They both (female and male) did “it” with no feelings, just for sexual pleasure. You can say they did a “quickie” ig..

at the same time tho they didn't really think of the girls as people, and didn't really have much respect for women. they just expected to be fawned over

They didn’t “expect to be fawned over” they got fawned over because of their good looks. Don’t blame them for being good looking, getting the women, and having plenty of one night stands. One night stands are a one night thing, you have sex and leave. That’s just what it is, they knew what they were getting into. You’re not supposed to bring your feelings into these types of stuff. Don’t expect something more than sex, like feelings. They didn’t agree to be in a relationship nor is it required. I’m just saying that this happens all the time and is normal, even in the real world. People are just looking to relieve stress and not get involved with the other peoples feelings and personal problems. Simple.

Although what you say is very true but what I disliked with the portrayal of this is that when he is guy he can't wait to fuck around with girsl, which is fine, but when he transforms into a girl suddenly that changes and he doesn't want to be seen as a slut? So it was fine cycling as a boy but not as a girl. The same for his friend. He had no problem fucking random girls left and right and competing with each other to see who could sleep or catch the most girls but when the person he has started developing feelings for turns into a girl it is now suddenly a problem?

Yh this is the issue with it. It conforms to those hypocritical cliches.

It’s not that Shion didn’t want to be seen as a slut, it’s just that Shion said he/she wouldn’t fuck anyone other than Rui. So basically Shion’s just being “loyal” ig you can say. (Not loyal as in they’re in a relationship, loyal as in trust and getting through something together type of thing) Plus there is no reason for Shion to sleep around, so why would he/she? It’s just that it’s dangerous to be with random men when he is a girl. He’s/she’s not a man anymore so that means Shion has to be careful and it’s crazy that your kinda “encouraging” it. Why would Shion have to sleep around to prove it’s not sexist? I’m just saying with the scene where Shion almost got raped, you don’t think that traumatized him/her? Even if he doesn’t show it, it most have effected him/her somehow. And obviously Shion doesn’t WANT to let anyone fuck him (other than Rui of course) plus you should already know that he has a ego problem. He/she feels like he’s/she’s being dominated and he doesn’t like to feel like he is weaker. Overall i don’t think this story is a sexist story, this is actually one of my favorite stories on this app. I love their personalities, Shion is my favorite cause he’s goofy and fun all around. Hope you hear me out on this one peace out, till I be called again.

Pls don’t agree to subjects/things that people say if you don’t know what you are talking about please. Not trying to be rude or anything just trying to educate, because I think you have the wrong idea about the story overall. It is not sexist so educate yourself before you make an assumption or even bring up the “title”/genre ig. I’m saying that because this can cause people to be misinformed and have the wrong idea about sexism. Hasta luego amigo/amiga

If this was meant as a reply to me, LOLLL. All I agreed with is that those cliches are true about this story. It's not so much sexist as it is an entire toxic cliche of the roles of people in society, specifically regarding how men are percieved to be. Again, it is portrayed in a very conservative world per usual, and so conveniently, the main guys are players, and only when one of them ends up transformed into the opposite gender do they start realizing their feelings for each other (〜￣△￣)〜 They genuinely only started learning the weight of genuine feelings and a genuine relationship after they could see themselves under a different light first, man & woman, rather than man & man because that's how unaware they are about different sexualities/their own subconscious feelings.

In this sense, it is very much sexist, not only toward women, but to men as well. To be sexist can mean to simply want a gender to be one way and respond to something in a way that blatantly showcases closemimdedness and restricts someone or something to be or act a certain way. This manga fits this because of the way it handles the concept of very sexual 'straight' men only learning the value of a partner and genuine relationship after one of them becomes a woman themselves. Even now, if for some reason the two main guys were to part, who knows if they really will have understood their lesson to the point of no longer being players with women. It's almost as if the only reason they are able to stop being that careless with partners is because "they're gay for each other", almost as if, because they were originally straight or smthn, they actually take going into a relationship with each other that much more seriously vs with a woman. This is the problem with this cliche situation. It is sexist in general, mainly towards how men are viewed, but not sexist in the way people usually think of being sexist.

In short, what I mean by all this is how it seems to be a double-standard situation for the most part. Like them being able to be serious with a gay relationship because of societal consequences and weighing their male pride while being careless with women because it was what they grew up with and they virtually face 0 consequences being loose with women. It's annoying, but nonetheless they are doofusses I plan on accompanying until the end

Yeah, they did fall in love unexpectedly I agree. I will also stay till the end