Sigh...

Sir.Dumpling March 13, 2021 1:59 am

Well I’m disappointed. I was really hoping the blonde guy would be a beefy/puppy personality bottom... I’ll still read it cause he’s absolutely my type but I’m just sad and upset that he’s not the uke...

Responses
    Joe Exotic March 13, 2021 2:41 am

    What has their sex positions got to do with the storytelling? Just enjoy it for what it is. It's clearly not going to be a smut-a-thon and is going to have a drama/ comedy plot.

    Sir.Dumpling March 13, 2021 3:45 am
    What has their sex positions got to do with the storytelling? Just enjoy it for what it is. It's clearly not going to be a smut-a-thon and is going to have a drama/ comedy plot. Joe Exotic

    I never said I hated the comic or that the story was bad... Just a bit upset that he wasn’t the bottom but that’s not the comics fault or the creators fault (they can make whoever they want as the uke/seme). The story seems nice, definitely my type of romance story but I’m just saying my opinion that I hoped one of the characters was the uke. (And if I’m coming for the sexy parts that’s not something to attack about either...)

    Erin April 7, 2021 5:09 am
    I never said I hated the comic or that the story was bad... Just a bit upset that he wasn’t the bottom but that’s not the comics fault or the creators fault (they can make whoever they want as the uke/seme)... Sir.Dumpling

    i’m still confused why their sex positions made you disappointed lmao

    Taiga_ April 11, 2021 10:18 am

    they've been releasing tons of mangas with a beefy bottom, go read them.

    alexisnic97 April 11, 2021 8:44 pm
    I never said I hated the comic or that the story was bad... Just a bit upset that he wasn’t the bottom but that’s not the comics fault or the creators fault (they can make whoever they want as the uke/seme)... Sir.Dumpling

    Well, too fuckin’ bad.

    Sir.Dumpling April 12, 2021 3:51 pm
    i’m still confused why their sex positions made you disappointed lmao Erin

    It's more like a self insert? At least for me, if there's a character that's my type I tend to self insert myself as the other character, subconsciously. And if the character that is my type is a bottom then ig it makes me feel like I'm the one making love? (it sounds weird haha) But if you follow some nsfw artists that do M/M and have a favorite character within a ship they tend to make their favorite character a bottom. I think that goes along with the self insertion thing. I just started noticing that with myself. (But another thing that made me sad was that I've been noticing stereotypes in who is the bottom and who is the top and it happened with this one too. But that is another topic that I can discus about but it's too long ahhh. I can see why my comment might have seemed bad but if ppl weren't so keen to attack and maybe have a conversation about it then they might understand where I'm coming from too.)

    Sir.Dumpling April 12, 2021 3:53 pm
    they've been releasing tons of mangas with a beefy bottom, go read them. Taiga_

    Oh really? :0 Do you mind telling me the names or the author's name or twitter?

    Taiga_ April 12, 2021 4:41 pm
    Oh really? :0 Do you mind telling me the names or the author's name or twitter? Sir.Dumpling

    Lucky paradise
    Stranger than friends
    Rix vanus
    Love for sale
    Under the green light
    Master of master
    Full volume
    Thirst
    Black mirror
    The beast that yearns to be tamed
    Amattare wa inu mo kuwanai
    Marcel
    Youth affairs
    Love tractor and looots more

    Sir.Dumpling April 12, 2021 5:47 pm
    Lucky paradiseStranger than friendsRix vanus Love for saleUnder the green light Master of masterFull volumeThirstBlack mirrorThe beast that yearns to be tamedAmattare wa inu mo kuwanai MarcelYouth affairs Love ... Taiga_

    Oh I've already been reading most of these. I thought you meant from the same creator of this webcomic. '>< But there are some I don't recognize so I'll check them out. Thank you!

    Joe Exotic April 12, 2021 7:50 pm
    It's more like a self insert? At least for me, if there's a character that's my type I tend to self insert myself as the other character, subconsciously. And if the character that is my type is a bottom then ig... Sir.Dumpling

    Sorry for being snipy in my reply but there are so many comments like yours on manwhas but they're meant in fetistic way that treat gay men like objects and that's were I thought you were coming from. It's really tiring when these comments appear en mass on manwhas that aren't BL (like action comics) but people unhealthy obsess about wanting them to be BL or on BL that's really well written with thoughtful plots and someone just asks repeatedly who the seme and uke are /when they'll have sex because that's the only bit they're interest in - ignoring all the work that the author who has spent years planning the manwha. I've also seen questions on here more than once from girls asking about how to turn their brothers gay because they just want to have someone gay in their life because they think it'll be so much fun because they've fetishized it that much. For them it's like knowing someone who is gay or reading about someone who is gay is the latest fashion accessory. There's nothing wrong with reading the smutty stuff as fap material (I do that myself!) but It's just disturbing when there's a general strong objectification that's applied to everything that just happens to have two guys in it.

    I also agree there are so many stereotypes (often misogynistic in origin) about bottoms in BL.

    Sir.Dumpling April 13, 2021 1:28 am
    Sorry for being snipy in my reply but there are so many comments like yours on manwhas but they're meant in fetistic way that treat gay men like objects and that's were I thought you were coming from. It's real... Joe Exotic

    Ah, it's okay! I definitely understand you and agree with you 100%. I can see why you thought that at first, I should have clarified myself more. I honestly would love it more if they were switches! (but unfortunately a lot of eastern Asian BL doesn't do that because of said hetero normative stereotypes) I only care for the uke/seme role (since ik most BL have it instead of switches) when it involves a character that is my type because then I can self insert into the other character haha. (I'm not sure if you saw my reply to someone else but I explain it in my reply with 'Erin.' It's really weird to understand but it's definitely not because of gay fetishistic reasons. It's kinda like, wanting to date your favorite character. The character that I hope to be uke is because they are my favorite/my type and so by them being a bottom it puts more focus on them and I can self insert myself as the top. I hope it makes sense? It's really weird and hard to explain. XDXD) But I only do that when ik the story has nsfw. (There was another reason why I was disappointed in the uke/seme roles which has to do with toxic stereotypes but that is a much longer rant I can go on.) But yeah if you are coming for just sex and complain there isn't enough of it then that's on you, not the creator... I wouldn't attack the creator if my wants weren't met because that's not my say. This is their comic and their story. I just have the pleasure of enjoying it. If I don't enjoy it, I can drop it. Simple as that. No need to harass the creator. I don't have much to add since I agree with you with everything that you said. XD (I have a lot to say about the toxic stereotypes with uke/seme roles though so if you wanna hear them we can dm if that's possible? I understand if you don't wanna. But I am glad to hear what you had to say. ^^)

    Joe Exotic April 13, 2021 1:37 pm
    Ah, it's okay! I definitely understand you and agree with you 100%. I can see why you thought that at first, I should have clarified myself more. I honestly would love it more if they were switches! (but unfort... Sir.Dumpling

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